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That's how the reports forums are going to work as soon as the tech folks get it coded right. They thought they had it done yesterday, but there was a glitch.Is any staff member going to even attempt to answer my question? I will ask it again here for clarity's sake.
If staff has nothing to hide and if no other individual's confidentiality is jeopardized what is the purpose for not allowing me to post a report thread in which I am the one reported?
I agree with you about transparency, especially in the report threads. My original question was why was it changed? Nobody answered, then we were told that we may (before the decision was made) be allowed to access report threads in which we were reported to defend ourselves but that we were not to discuss anything about the report thread with anyone else either in a thread or by PM. When it was pointed out that the only possible reason for this was to protect privacy it was asked if it is our privacy that is being endangered why don't we have the choice to make the report thread public?I don't think it matters. AFAIK, the only place where specific report decisions can be discussed, (and potentially overturned) is the complaints forum. That process is supposed to change, but I'm not sure how it will change.
I honestly don't understand the purpose of making the appeals/review process non-transparent. I thought the open appeals were a real benefit to members and staff alike.
[1] It is definitely a step in the right the right direction, but the road ahead is long still. What guarantee will there be that the reportee will be able to do read and respond in the thread ? [2] I disagree. The reportee should have the right to divulge the report thread to the general public.mnphycisist 1 said:Members will still receive a PM notifying them that their post was reported. Members will still be able to see the report graphic under their reported post. The reported member will be allowed to read and respond in the report thread.[1] However, the report thread will remain private, and should not be divulged to other than the RT, in accordance with the site wide rules.[2]
I strongly disagree with that. Staff should be prohibited to harass members in report threads, PMs or open forums.mnphycisist said:In addition, harassment of staff in report threads, pm's or in the open forums is prohibited. The first violation will result in a 1 month ban, although no points will be given. Further harassment will result in infractions being issued.
Be careful not to give them too much excuse to ban you.Lindon Tinuviel 2 said:I also refuse to assist you in maintaining the cloak of secrecy. Should anything of note be said in any thread I can access, I intend to broadcast it to my utmost ability.
I dont trust the ones who will decide what is too far.mnphysicist 9 said:I would hate to think a few posts over a day or two would be considered harrassment. Folks will be upset in reports threads.... staff know and understands that. This doesn't mean folks won't get warned for flaming if they go to far.
Can you prove that ?mnphysicist 9 said:When its an ongoing thing and personal, that is harrassment, and that has to stop. We lost too many good staff over the last few months with everything being open.
[/FONT]I disagree. These modifications are to please staff. Dont pretend it to be something else. I didnt ask for this and ordinary members are members too.Million Pieces 10 said:Essentially Lee has given the members the site they asked for. This is what they asked for, and some of what the staff needs in order to do their best jobs most efficiently.
It is a bad rule. Trash it. Get one of the forum specific moderation protocols. I didnt participate in one, but many members have and the protocols are, though not perfect, far superior to what I have seen so far.mnphycisist 12 said:I wonder though, if we should adjust the verbiage of that. We don't want folks getting 1 month ban when a warning for flaming would do. It should be clear, but maybe not. What do you folks think?
I fear these people will be punished. Dictatorships usually dont take kindly releasing to the public information embarrassing to the authorities.Tonks 18 said:What's going to happen to folks that copy and paste reports into the open forums? And don't say that it will never happen...
PreachersWife2004 2004 said:YAY to semi-private reports and YAY to the harassment rule.[1]
[1] Another staff members applauding lowly member discrimination. [2] What evidence to you have to show that would be sufficient ? [3] You really dislike ordinary members, dont you ?PreachersWife2004 2004 said:Don't want to get banned? DON'T HARASS THE STAFF.[2] It's a fairly easy rule.
Will the reporter still be anonymous to the reported one viewing the thread?
As for anyone who C&Ps a report somewhere else, that ought to result in an automatic ban.[3] For how long, I don't know...
No. Staff members should not be anonymous.pdudgeon 29 said:[FONT="] how can this part be enforced? there would need to be a means to disallow copy and paste from report threads, as well as making every poster in the thread (including staff) anonymous.[/FONT]
[*][/FONT]What evidence do you have to support that ?RN4CHRIST 30 said:I think this is an excellent compromise! Staff are people too and they shouldn't have to put up with harassment just because they have a letter beside their name! And it is wrong to paint all staff with a broad brush. They are volunteers, with real lives outside of this site. They are trying to do their best with what they have been given.
[*] They all are humans, and members in their own right. It would be good to remember that.
[1] You are mistaken. He does have a clue. [2] Thats what they all say. My thirst for power too has nothing to do with my moderator application. Considering how an administrator voted against me (No and not Apply later) shortly after I complained about an issue she was involved, it looks like its not like coming up for the members is what lifts you a step on the social ladder. [3] Youd rather have it done automatically. Thats more convenient.PreachersWife2004 31 said:That's bull and you [Lindon Tinuviel] know it. Reasonable? Based on WHAT? You made an assumption about my character and about my reasons for becoming a mod. And given how you've posted in this thread, it's no stretch to see that your assumptions are negative. You don't know me, you don't have any clue as to why I volunteered to become staff [1] but I will tell you this, even though I don't owe you the time of day: I did not volunteer to be on staff to abuse any powers like you suggest.[2] I hope I never have to ban someone [3], and I've been to bat for several people who have been close to banning. I've stood up for both staff and members of this forum.
What would that be supposed to accomplish ?PreachersWife2004 said:So you can take your baseless accusations elsewhere, LT. They don't belong here. If you have problems with poor mods, as you put it, take it up with those mods privately.
[/FONT]I was sorry I didnt spend enough time in the Harrassment and False Accusations wiki. I shouldnt have. The wiki should be reopened, completed and snapshotted.Radman 38 said:I agree. Harassment needs a definition. Right now in some forums there is too much latitude. A mod could get a hair up their *blink* just because they don't like someone. Then because they belong to the "officers" even the supermods support their decision. Good 'ol Boy philosophy.
Staff has been rebuffed by who ?Tonks 44 said:Every time staff has asked for a bit more of a definition of a rule (and we've asked for several) we've been rebuffed, FYI.
If forums are causing problems PM the RT.
I disagree. A compromise where one side gets 95% and the other side 5% is a very bad compromise.Saleucami 51 said:not a bad compromise at all.
That is how LeeD likes to manipulate naïve people. He first robs them of an arm, gives them back a finger and then they are happy with the compromise. I think though many ordinary members are merely happy out of resignation as this may be the least bad they can get.Bombila 67 said:I think this is a good step in the right direction. I'd prefer reports fully open, as I think it serves as a learning tool for the majority of users, but this is at least a compromise. Good to know compromises can be made.
I think staff wants compensation for being LeeDs puppies. Most of the modifications are I think to please staff. Having access to areas ordinary members havent is reward for their loyalty. Both from an argumentative as a numerical stance open reports have already been successfully defended, but this is a dictatorship, sometimes by the Powers That Be euphemistically described as not a pure democracy. Good reasons dont matter as long as what they advocate doesnt suit those in power.Bombila said:I have to ask why the report thread must not be divulged to anyone else? Some people may want to ask advice of others who have had experience. Or they may wish to discuss the deliberations with someone. Why not? If, for example, their post is deleted but they are not infracted because their fault was found to be less serious, they might wish to let other members know that.
[/FONT]If I were to bump all my unanswered questions, I would be doing a lot of bumping. It is unlikely a restriction will be placed on from when on reportees are allowed to post in the report.sk8Joyful 69 said:bump
I disagree. The majority wanted open reports.synger 75 said:I, for one, am VERY pleased with this development. It shows that the updated wiki/discussion process may actually work. We had a long discussion on this topic, and the option presented here was the one that had overwhelming support by those who participated in the discussion.
By having a discussion on the topic, which happens to be what wikis are for. Failing that, LeeDs puppys could also do a job they shouldnt be ashamed of and write a decent rule.PreachersWife2004 87 said:I agree with you that it needs to be defined on both sides. The difficulty lies in how.
[1] Can you prove that ? [2] Can you prove that ? [3] It is the reportee who should know what is going on. The reporter and the majority of members will be kept in the dark.PreachersWife2004 88 said:JT, most members I read from and heard from were furious that the reports had been closed. Some wanted them to stay closed, and a lot wanted them totally opened again. This really is the best solution.[1] This lets the reported poster see that the actions taken are fair.[2] That was the main concern from people who didn't like closed reports, because now the mods could "hide" so to speak. At least this way, the reporter knows what is going on. And that's how it should be.[3]
Apparently only the reportee would be able to see the report.Bananna 93 said:I'm glad that now people can defend themselves.
Will both the reported and the reporter beable to add to the threads or only the reported.
Strange that you would become Christian. You seemed to be a sensible person, even in matters of religion.Glass*Soul 95 said:We're Christians. We can treat each other even better than this, I think.
Dont you think the Powers That Be have better things to do than answer questions of lowly members ? Stop whining and click on the ads.jtbdad 102 said:Will these respectfully asked questions be answered?
[1] In some real-life dictatorships undermining the authority of the state is a crime. That does not appear to be the case here (yet), except for the prohibition to discuss staff activity in public.Bananna 103 said:Some people are persistently undermining authority, credibility and character of others and yes both staff and general members can get paranoid.. and yes that does not guarantee moderators and posters are on the square.[1]
Some Things we have to do may make us look like the bad guy when we are just following protocol to make sure things are as fair and safe as we know how to make it, no one being hacked, and no one systematically disrupting harmony and dissuading faith.[2]
We are all human. We all need prayers, consideration and understanding.
No one should have their comments published without permission to the general forum.[3] This includes moderators.
This process with the accused being able to answer for their infractions, will certainly speed up some reports and slow down others. The Reconciliation team is available for appeals if someone feels they are being singled out and treated unfairly.[4]
I would suggest that if you feel you need an advocate that is unbiased that you look up a system for determining an advocate to reconcile differences between parties and put it in the suggestion forum. It is easy to have a ton of people complaining about rules and yet not so many have thought through viable and workable suggestions.[5]
On our team our diversity allows us to have at least one person advocating at any given time. I thank our admins for making that happen.[6]
We do ? Since when ?Bananna 109 said:Likewise all those under authority have access to the ear of the God of the universe through Yeshuah HaMashiach (Jesus the Christ our head). All those under the headship of Christ abide in his will.
I believe that includes we respect the rules and show respect to authorities set in place over us.
Bananna 109 said:I guess I see scripture as saying other wise. I respect your desire for justice, I just see God as having the right to set the order of authority and government. In the US if one buys someting they own it. I won't agree to do anything ungodly or unethical neither do I see any ungodly or or unethical rules. Life is not Fair though.
[*] It was not fair that my savior died so I might live... I'm just so thankful he did.
It is my opinion that a Christian board should compromise between good and Christian principles, preferable with the good principles dominating.Bananna 114 said:It is my opinion that a Christian board should exemplify biblical princiipals.
That is a good start, but is too much open to staff discretion. I suppose though as OddBeani indicated it hard to detail harassment enough to leave no room for interpretation. Staff abuse needs, I think, to be prevented elsewhere.constance 120 said:If you are harassing someone, you will be told far before you are banned. If there is some disparity at any time, you can appeal it. Harassment would include (but not be limited to) such things as:
- Following someone from thread to thread
- Posting their name/personal information
- PMing or otherwise contacting someone when you know that contact is unwelcome
- singling out a person or persons to mock or belittle
- threatening to contact their work/church/spouse/family or suggesting that other people do it
- posting veiled references to people
- misquoting people
As far as I understand the appeal panel will consist of members of the Reconciliation Team and they should do very little moderation. Apparently ordinary moderators cannot see the appeals.jtbdad 122 said:Additionally you also said it could be appealed, but is it not staff who will be hearing the appeal and as I understand it those appeals are also closed correct?
The debate about whether reports should be open has already been won. The Powers That Be dont listen to reason that does not serve their own interests.Bombila 133 said:Another reason one might want to post parts of a report thread, or a report decision, is to educate another poster regarding what grounds, what arguments might inform a decision on a particular type of reported post.
Apparently they only answer respectfully asked questions. You have been cursing and flaming all the time. No wonder they are ignoring you. Also, they are only answering questions, not concerns.jtbdad said:Anyway no one has given a good answer as to why they are now closed again and the only assumption many of us can make is to keep staff inconsistency and unfairness unseen.
Be careful not to give them too much excuse to ban you.
So the current status is that we can see reports we have made but not ones that were made against us?
I think that situation was in error, and is in the process of being changed.
Originally Posted by Glass*Soul 95
We're Christians. We can treat each other even better than this, I think.
Strange that you would become Christian. You seemed to be a sensible person, even in matters of religion.
A very rep worthy postI'm a skeptic, a non-theist and a follower of Christ's teachings. If I've gone through a conversion over the last year, I think it is more a subtle conversion regarding my self-identity than one of becoming something I formerly was not. I recently reviewed many of my posts going back to the time I first joined Christian Forums, and though I am addressing somewhat different questions these days, I still agree with what I've posted all along.
One thing I've noted about Jesus' teachings is that he so often urged upon his followers a radical transparency and accountability both inwardly and outwardly. One might expect this to lead Christians to treat one another quite differently from how we are being treated on this board. I ask myself constantly why Christianity as a practice is so often divorced in this fashion from the teachings of Christ. Is the thing that is hindering us embedded in his teachings themselves? Is there something fatally flawed therein? Something that my skepticism cannot strip away without shattering the whole?
I would be brokenhearted to find that there was such a fatal flaw, but if that is the truth of the matter, then I need to know it.
My doubts, my skepticism on this count, are contained in that little "I think" at the end of my sentence.
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