Relationship question

[charmtrap]

If the OP wants to stay with this woman, and if her pastor has a lick of common sense and compassion, they should both go get a little judicious counselling.

I'm not so many years away from being a Christian that I don't think there are no sensible pastors/ministers out there, and she sounds like she could be comforted by such a person.

Well, I hardly think they need counseling after dating for a few weeks. Usually that kind of thing is only necessary after the inevitable years of resentment and anger and disgust have built up, and they can barely stand to look at each other, never mind share a kind word...but maybe that's just my relationships...

 

[Ainustorm]

Well, I hardly think they need counseling after dating for a few weeks. Usually that kind of thing is only necessary after the inevitable years of resentment and anger and disgust have built up, and they can barely stand to look at each other, never mind share a kind word...but maybe that's just my relationships...

I agree... they dont need counsel. She has repented, he has forgiven her for past sin. Allow the relationship to happen. There is no reason to not date. Love her like there is not tomorrow... all your relationship to develope into a Godly partnership. Make God center... and it will be a wonderous relationship. God Bless!

 

[SonicBOOM]

This is very tame compared to what you would find on any other internet forum. Go ask your question somewhere else and see what happens. It'd be a feeding frenzy.

The internet, serious business.

yeah.... I don't know what it is but people tend to show their mean side over the internet. It's everywhere and most people are just mean for the heck of it. Maybe it's the fact that the internet hides your identity so you are able to be mean to people without your reputation being threatened