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relationship drama queen?
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Nienna_Lady_of_Tears
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How crazy is his schedule? Sometimes you may have to deal with just a phone call. Sometimes things come up. I would give him the benefit of the doubt. I would also bring up the fact that you need him to at least try to keep his commitments to you.
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he doesn't have a crazy schedule tho... he gets off work and he has nothing to do afterward. just decides to go play video games with his friends or go sit on his buddy's couch rather than coming over like he said he would. i just talked to him and he said that he has to figure out his living situation before he can offer any stability. like... what?
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I think this means he's afraid that you're leaning on him too much. From what I see, this is his cue to back off, that you're coming on too strong for him right now.
For men, the way they feel secure is their job/living situation. If they don't feel secure in this, they cannot offer ANY kind of stability to a woman; physical or emotional. He wants to get his ducks in a row so to speak before he makes any more real commitments.
Does this make any sense?
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I can't tell what is going on with him. But I'd have issues with someone that made commitments about our meeting time than then never showed and didn't call to say he couldn't make it. I'd back away from a serious relationship.
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