Relationship Advice

[ChristianX]

Hello everyone. I was hoping that you could give me some advice. I am a born-again Christian (Baptist). Recently, I have come together with a girl of the same age. We hit it off really quickly and became best friends incredibly easily. I have never been able to tell people much, but I can tell her anything. To me, she is perfect and we go incredibly well together. Other people have also noticed this and pointed it out to both of us. There is only one issue; she is not a Christian. I have been praying for her so that she may become a Christian, as I can really see myself marrying this girl. I am just putting it in God's hands and enjoying being with her right now. Just wondering if anyone had any advice for me. Thank you so much, and God bless!

 

[phoenixdem]

Hello everyone. I was hoping that you could give me some advice. I am a born-again Christian (Baptist). Recently, I have come together with a girl of the same age. We hit it off really quickly and became best friends incredibly easily. I have never been able to tell people much, but I can tell her anything. To me, she is perfect and we go incredibly well together. Other people have also noticed this and pointed it out to both of us. There is only one issue; she is not a Christian. I have been praying for her so that she may become a Christian, as I can really see myself marrying this girl. I am just putting it in God's hands and enjoying being with her right now. Just wondering if anyone had any advice for me. Thank you so much, and God bless!

Nothing happens to one of God's children by accident. Talk to Him about the girl. Perhaps, you met her to bring her to Christ.

 

[ChristianX]

I was thinking the same thing. I was thinking that perhaps I am too judgmental sometimes, and perhaps, God wants to show me this by forgiving this girl and in turn he will save her. I know that sounds kind of confusing, but I know that God brought us together and gave us a strong connection so quickly for a reason. Thank you for the help!

 

[riverhooks]

Don't do it . Wait for her conversion . To marry and unbeliever is disobiedience . I am speaking from experience. Trying to save you some pain.

 

[ChristianX]

Oh yeah, I definitely want her to be a Christian when/if we get married. But because of how quickly, easily, and strongly the connection between us is, I know that God brought us together. I just pray to God every day thanking Him for giving me her and praying for her to come to Him.