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Just spent an hour and a-half doing reports.
My eye is twitching.
Thank you though.
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Just spent an hour and a-half doing reports.
My eye is twitching.
ugh. i'm having a rough morning.... and i just got up....
your wife is pregnant? congratulations
*Yawns* Remind me again why I got up at 4:30 A.M...
so i feel really stuck in the middle of something
history: i have pretty much the best boyfriend ever. been together 10 months been friends for 4 yrs, close to engaged. etc... he and i just had issues for the first time last week and this week... and are working to resolve them appropriately.
have a kind of best friend. at least one of the more closer friends i do have. been friends for 7 years. history of ups and downs but we get through them.
she's only met my boyfriend once. so she doesn't know him very well.
so i was ranting to her this morning about just having issues with my boyfriend... nothing severe, nothing too detailed, and it wasn't all negative either. i mentioned how we were resolving it, etc.
she went on to say about how she's never liked him and the fact that we're having (a MINOR) issue... makes her dislike him more.
granted, i appreciate her honesty in one light... but in the other, she's met him once? i NEVER complain about him, EVER... and the one time i tell her this stuff, she goes out and tells me she never liked him and i should take this into consideration. I am not the type of person to be delusional and not think things through. I would not ignore seeing it as a real problem. and she tells me about basically how she hates my boyfriend and how he gets on her nerves.
ugh!! this was the friend i would choose to be in my wedding, and she comes at me with this?!?!
i don't even know how to feel about it... but then i'm stuck because usually i would talk to my boyfriend about stuff like this and he'd be hurt to find this out because he likes her... not just because she's my friend, but because of our relationship!
so i feel really stuck in the middle of something
history: i have pretty much the best boyfriend ever. been together 10 months been friends for 4 yrs, close to engaged. etc... he and i just had issues for the first time last week and this week... and are working to resolve them appropriately.
have a kind of best friend. at least one of the more closer friends i do have. been friends for 7 years. history of ups and downs but we get through them.
she's only met my boyfriend once. so she doesn't know him very well.
so i was ranting to her this morning about just having issues with my boyfriend... nothing severe, nothing too detailed, and it wasn't all negative either. i mentioned how we were resolving it, etc.
she went on to say about how she's never liked him and the fact that we're having (a MINOR) issue... makes her dislike him more.
granted, i appreciate her honesty in one light... but in the other, she's met him once? i NEVER complain about him, EVER... and the one time i tell her this stuff, she goes out and tells me she never liked him and i should take this into consideration. I am not the type of person to be delusional and not think things through. I would not ignore seeing it as a real problem. and she tells me about basically how she hates my boyfriend and how he gets on her nerves.
ugh!! this was the friend i would choose to be in my wedding, and she comes at me with this?!?!
i don't even know how to feel about it... but then i'm stuck because usually i would talk to my boyfriend about stuff like this and he'd be hurt to find this out because he likes her... not just because she's my friend, but because of our relationship!