Recovery from a breakup

[johnjohn2010]

Recently I have broken up with a girl after being together for 3 months. It is very painful because I had so much hope for it and I love her very much. I miss her sometimes and I really want my negative emotion just wash away. I miss the happiness provided from the relationship but now I can never get it back. It is worse when you get something and have an expectation from it. Sometimes I wish I'd never had it before.

I believe that everything will work for good for those who love God. I just find it difficult that my head knowledge cannot heal my heart. Sometimes it is hard for me to believe there is still hope after such a big disappointment. All I can do is to hang on to God.

I guess it is a process of healing and I need to wait some time to recover from it. I just want to share with you all and let you know my feelings. Let's continue be hopeful and loving even though there is some pain in our journey.

I am trying to spend more time at church and work to keep myself productive and I am very thankful to God giving me a supportive family, a lovely church and enjoyable work.

God bless you all, brothers and sisters! Please spare a moment and pray for me! Thanks!

 

[laurieloves]

Beloved Father, please bring Your comfort and hope to Your servant Johnjohn. Heal his heart and sustain his hope. And please, in Your own time, bring him a loving and faithful life partner so that together they can share the blessing of Your love. Amen.

Johnjohn, you have a wonderful attitude and I hope your pain is short-lived and that you find an awesome woman to have a relationship with.

Blessings,
Laurie

 

[Ceili]

John The hurt will ease believe me it gets better and things will always make sense in the end. I always have the hardest time with the why's and the what if's but God has a hand in how things work. Could be for the best and could still change. Wait and pray awhile but do be positive and seek out friends to help your heartache.

 

[johnjohn2010]

Thanks for the support. I am feeling better seeing your reply. They have made a difference in my life. I will keep trusting God and find the support I need for my heartache. Thank you! God bless you!