Recieved divorce papers

[thislittlelight]

Well recieved divorce papers out of the blue today.My soon to be ex is currently pregnant.She has led me on for 8 months now.She didn't even have the guts to let me know she filed.There's a chance baby isn't mine.Yet she has let me think he is.We have seen each other once in 6 months.She doesn't want me to come see her at work or home.I am not even excited about the birth.I feel as though she has kept me from the pregnancy.She has comitted adultery while pregnant.She kicked me out about 3 weeks before we found out she was expecting.I had told her I was willing to salvage marriage.Up until last Thursday she kept telling me she didn't know what she wanted to do.By the way she filed that same day.I'm needing prayer on if I should go to hospital if she calls me.I need advice and support from anybody who has experienced a similar cituation.

 

[madison1101]

You could go to the hospital. However, if you doubt the paternity, you need to prepare yourself for the news that this child may not be yours. I would get to a lawyer immediately to prepare for the divorce. I would also have the lawyer file the paperwork for the paternity test. If the child is yours, you have a legal, and moral obligation as his father to support him. You may even want to consider filing for custody, as you appear to be the better parent.

It is understandable that you would not be excited about this little one. But, know that if you are his father, he needs you in a very big way. His mother appears to be unstable as she is bed hopping.

I do understand your heartache though. I have been there, and can empathize. Know that the Lord is there for you and can comfort you and give you peace.

Praying for you.

 

[Autumnleaf]

Deny taking responsibility for the child in any way until you get the results of the paternity test. Move on with your life and pray for her and the baby.