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I am a success ONLY when I am obedient to the will of GOD in my life, DISPITE any circumstances. Does a gay lifestyle fit this mold ? Why or why not?

That would depend entirely on whether the homosexual in question is a Christian or not.
 
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I am a success ONLY when I am obedient to the will of GOD in my life, DISPITE any circumstances. Does a gay lifestyle fit this mold ? Why or why not?

I guess a lot depends on what is meant by a "gay lifestyle", since this is a generalization that has no real meaning. If a person can be gay and a success in God's eyes, I know several that I believe God views as successes.
 
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I am a success ONLY when I am obedient to the will of GOD in my life, DISPITE any circumstances. Does a gay lifestyle fit this mold ? Why or why not?
There is no god. You are obedient only to yourself and what you wish to do yourself. How arrogant of you to claim that you discriminate and hate others in the name of an all-knowing, all-powerful deity.
 
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I am a success ONLY when I am obedient to the will of GOD in my life, DISPITE any circumstances. Does a gay lifestyle fit this mold ? Why or why not?

Besides the fact that living in accordance with "god's will" is completely irrelevant for an atheist such as myself, how does one know "god's will"? Did he/she/it tell it to you? I must have missed that meeting...
 
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Being obedient to the will of some imaginary being does not count as success in my book.
So what makes one a success in your book? And since you do not believe in GOD, do you believe in real success or just fleeting monents of happiness?
 
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There is no god. You are obedient only to yourself and what you wish to do yourself. How arrogant of you to claim that you discriminate and hate others in the name of an all-knowing, all-powerful deity.
It seems that you are trying to derail this thread. Nothing was stated about hating anyone? But since you have? Why do some people hate themselves so much, as to accuse others of making their choices so difficult to bear?
 
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Besides the fact that living in accordance with "god's will" is completely irrelevant for an atheist such as myself, how does one know "god's will"? Did he/she/it tell it to you? I must have missed that meeting...
Perhaps success is finding GOD? Kind of like finding the answer?
 
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1. LN, you started this thread, so you are responsible for making sure we are all on the same page regarding "success."

2. LN, if you didn't want atheists to comment on God, you should have posted this in CP&E.
Number one ---- Are you finding fault with me?
Number Two ---- I am not willing to exclude anyone determined on their opinion.
 
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Fair answer, but what makes for a "homosexual" christian? What makes one a christian?

I would define a Christian as someone who believes in Christ and has accepted Him as their Savior and into their heart. Success, as you have stated it in this thread, I read as living a life that emulates and honors Christ.
 
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That depends what is meant by the 'gay lifestyle'. If you mean gay people openly and honestly living their lives, seeking a loving relationship with someone of the same sex and experiening the joy and beauty of Love along the way, just like any straight person, then it is absolutely in line with 'God'.

At least, any god that is worth worshipping. If She is up there and Love doesn't fit into Her will, then Her will is of no consequence to anyone of good conscience.

peace
 
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