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Hetta

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This thread is making me see how terribly uninteresting I am! There is nothing unique about me....
You are in fact unique because there has never been, and never will be, another you. :)

My "identity" (actually, just my banking information) was stolen about five years ago and everything I had was stolen. The people were caught, but rather than fight my whole life for my credit rating, I changed my name instead. When I did so, and because my bank knew me, the credit rating I had with them was protected.
Wow. :( You did something interesting here - you reminded me that i need to go and do my free credit report check. You know that you get three free ones? You should use them to run that check three times a year .. that's what I read. So I need to do my first one right now!!
 
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Did It get you over your fear of heights Ezoo?

I also love roller coasters. The most daring thing I've done so far was this big bungee swing thing at Canada's Wonderland. I did it with my husband and it was awesome. However, we were a bit freaked out at the prospect of what would happen to our son if it broke. :/ so we've since promised each other no bungee jumping or skydiving till the kids are grown. When that time comes I definitely want to do both! Maybe we'll do it together to celebrate being empty nesters! :D

I've always wanted to go skydiving!! My uncle has a powered parachute. I've always wanted to go on it and have dropped some hints! He has promised me a try, but is hesitant till my kids get older, sigh! I have no qualms about going now, you gotta live a little! ;)
 
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I don't dance. I grew up in a culture that frowned on dancing, so I never danced! My husband comes from a culture where they're all about dance, so much to my dismay, he insisted on a dance at our wedding. I was soooooo nervous about it, but we pulled it off. Have rarely danced since though...
 
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Niffer

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My absolute favourite job was also my most challenging.
I was working as a Librarian in an inner-city branch, we actually had a panic-button under the circulation desk.
It was a regular occurring to have to call the police because of the prostitution happening in front of our building, the pimps would watch their girls deal with Johns from inside our Lib.
We had a head-shop right across the street, and a men's half-way house just down the road. I'd have extremely stoned (or even more frightening, tweakers) come in, and ask things like: "Can I buy your urine off of you?" (seriously...)
I did a teen after-school program, and had to dive to catch a 16 year old girls, 6 week old baby from falling off a chair, (she'd put the carseat on a chair, it was too large...)

Thankfully we had a male librarian who would rouse the homeless who would sleep on our lawn all night - and we'd offer free food and coffee during the winter, as much as we could.

Almost worse was the children - we were right near a high-school, and the things I saw/caught them doing was awful, not to mention the little toddlers that would run around crusty faced, dirty and asking for food while their mom's browsed Facebook on our computers.

It was more than a job, it was a real ministry and service to the community. I only had to call the police once, and had to have Hubby pick me up from work, as it was too dangerous to go alone (or with another tiny female co-worker) into the parking lot to get to my car.

I was sad to leave...
 
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BigDaddy4

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lol I want to go skydiving.

I did bungee jumping a couple of years ago. I've got a real intense fear of HIGH heights - and I thought that would be a way for me to conquer it.

I remember standing on the platform - and being pretty sure I couldn't do it. So I looked at the guy and said "Nah, untie me."

He pointed at the line of people behind me, and there were several little girls in the line. He said "Little girls are going to do this, dude."

That was all it took...and I jumped.

I have an immense fear of heights and will not get near a bungee jumping platform.

However, on my 1st anniversary with my first wife, we went tandom skydiving from 10,000 feet (tandom = being attached to an instructor). Before you go up, there is a training session on the ground. The instructor runs through how you are to step out of the plane, he'll ask if you're ready, and then free fall.

When the door opened at 10,000 feet, I almost wished I had some Depends on! lol I stepped where I was supposed to step and was waiting for him to ask if I was ready. Next thing I know I'm freefalling and the plane is getting smaller. I'm thinking "But I wasn't ready yet!!!"

We righted ourselves, saw awesome views of the Cascade mountains and Mt. Rainier, and had a pretty smooth landing.

Been there, did that, did not get the t-shirt, and have no desire to go back!
 
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illudium_phosdex

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I'm the same way with any kind of stinging insect, Avniel. I won't let the kids roll the car windows down in the summer time because I'm so scared of one getting in with us. When we lived in Georgia and it was so hot we had no choice, if a bee or wasp ever got in the car I would seriously stop right in the middle of the road and open every door and wait until it got out. I didn't care how busy the road was.
 
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Niffer

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I'm scared of cats if I see that a cat is close to me I will have panic attacks and start crying its really embarrassing.

Did you get attacked by a cat as a kid? Or is this just a born-with phobia??
 
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