Talmidah said:
So then why didn't the Europeans leave their culture behind and adopt the native american culture when they first came to this continent?
I'm going to take a stab at this but from a different perspective.
I want to examine what happened to the Native Americans due to their aquiescence to the incoming European culture.
I'm part Cherokee, so I will use them as an example.
When the Europeans first came, the Cherokee welcomed them and were very interested in their new neighbors. They traded with them, learned their culture, intermarried, and many even adopted Christianity. As the European population grew, tensions arose with the Cherokee because the Europeans needed more land to expand into. But this land was the Cherokee's home, where they had lived for hundreds of years, and they did not want to sell or leave it, and they weren't willing to fully assimilate into the European culture.
And the rest is history. A few members of the tribe negotiated with the federal government to exchange Cherokee land for land in the West, this btw was not approved by the tribe. The relocation, known as the trail of tears, with the assistance of 17,000 US troops followed, and many of the Cherokee were relocated, many fled and went into hiding, and at least 4,000 lost their lives in the process.
My ancestors went into hiding and denied their heritage. Being native american in those days was not safe, and those of European heritage viewed their culture as superior. Native Americans were all savages, perverse, and uncivilized, with nothing to offer society. They had to be removed, or better yet, destroyed. Does this form of thinking sound familiar to anyone? You know, us being infidels and all.
That aside, Cherokee culture along with any native american culture is virtually nonexistent and unknown to the world. In essence, it has been destroyed.
I don't think anyone on this board would venture to say that what happened was the appropriate and right thing to do. I imagine most would agree that the Cherokee should have been able to keep their way of life.
So why is it wrong for what is now the predominant culture to stay? Why is the preservation of what is now American, Canadian, Australian, and European culture a reprehensible idea to so many? There is much to be appreciated and honored that should not be destroyed. Especially not because someone who is new to this country happens to disagree with what is already established as right and proper here. I am not willing to appease the newcomer just so they will not have their feelings hurt. I would not expect any person of any other nation to bend over backward for me while I am living in their country. I would not move to another country if I did not fully or almost completely agree with the views of their society. I would go expecting to adopt their culture as my own. For instance, I will never move to a predominantly Muslim country. I don't agree with their standards. My future husband could probably be making a lot of money in oil if he were to relocate to the middle east, but we don't. The money does not outweigh the cultural sacrifices that would have to occur.
If they want to keep their personal observance of their culture, fine, just do it in the privacy of their own home. Or in public, since that is allowed here, but I am not going to change my ways and views solely because it might offend them. You can tell me what you think is valuable and important about your culture, but if I don't agree and desire to adopt your ways, don't call me intolerant, a racist, or whatever. I will continue to practice my way of life, and I will not allow my culture to be taken over. I can't. It has happened time and time again throughout history. The group that stands for their culture is the one that stays. (wow, what a concept.)
Sorry for the length, but on to the Holiday Tree insanity. First, most people, Christian or not, in the US, Canada, Australia, etc., celebrate Christmas. I think the rate is 95% in the US. Christmas has become a secular holiday with the traditions of Santa, reindeer, elves, and all that stuff. As far as I know, the Christmas tree itself is a secular symbol. I'm not aware of any Christmas trees as we know them being present in the Bible. They first appeared in Germany. The last time I checked, Germany is a couple thousand miles away from Bethlehem and was not in existence in the form of "Germany" 2000 years ago. So directly linking a "Christmas tree" as an endorsement of Christianity is just beyond crazy. They are known as "Christmas trees." That is their secular title. Calling them a holiday tree is just nonsense. Everyone knows they are related to Christmas, and not Chanukah(sp??), or Kwanzaa (sp??), and once again they are related to Christmas in a secular sense. What is so hard about this?