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"Quiet times"

Veiled Viper

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I find it very hard to read the bible and spend time in prayer everyday.I know I need to in order to grow spiritually.I need some pointers on how you keep a daily routine like this.It's much easier to turn the computer on or pick up a magazine or crossword,rather than the bible. How do you do it?Do you have a set time,and stick to it? A certain place?
I also don't know how to pray very well.Can someone give me a link to "how to pray":pray:
 

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A daily routine is hard to establish. I have to be at work by 8 AM so I've found the best thing for me is to get up 1/2 an hour earlier than I normally would. This gives me a time in the day when it is quiet and I can concentrate on my reading and prayer. An added bonus is that I have been able to get to work on time. :0). As for how to pray, that's just like anything else it gets eaiser with practice. It really dosen't matter if you think you can't pray well because God always hears and He wants you to talk with him. Just talk to Him like you would your earthly father.
 
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Hello again. :wave: I find that if I sit down with a book nobody will leave me alone, whereas if I sit down at the computer, nobody bothers me. Try this site www.bibles.net . Also, there is a place in my hubby's study bible that maps out how to read the whole bible in a year if that would help. Also, maybe you could get up a half-hour before anyone else in the house. That's when I get most of my quiet time.
 
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invisiblefootprints said:
Hello again. :wave: I find that if I sit down with a book nobody will leave me alone, whereas if I sit down at the computer, nobody bothers me. Try this site www.bibles.net . Also, there is a place in my hubby's study bible that maps out how to read the whole bible in a year if that would help.
I've found that trying to study the word on the pc just puts me to sleep.:sleep: zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz:) Same for anywhere else.I guess I just need to pray for God to make the Word come alive for me,huh?
 
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Knight4God said:
I've found that trying to study the word on the pc just puts me to sleep.:sleep: zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz:) Same for anywhere else.I guess I just need to pray for God to make the Word come alive for me,huh?
I think I have finally been able to keep consistent in reading the bible but it took some experimentation. I think that every person has to find a way that works for them.

First of all, expect yourself to get bored/tired/lose concentration, etc. You simply will not want to read the bible sometimes. But you know that you get blessed when you do read the bible, even when you started reading when you didn't want to do it at all. So the way I solved this is by just forcing myself to read. I would leave bibles in areas that I knew I would be. (I always seem to end up with multiple bibles! They are pretty cheap, so I recommend buying a couple extra for this).

To get my concentration going when my mind drifts, I simply read out loud until I get in to it, then I go in to silent reading.

I try to make sure that I find a comfortable chair and turn on enough light so my eyes don't get tired. It also helped to use bibles that have print that I can see easily.

Drink coffee if that helps too. I don't listen to music because it distracts me. Something instrumental would probably be ok but that might lead to sleepiness if it's soft classical music.

I never jump around in the bible because it tends to defeat my drive to read through. I used to use reading plans. Yearly reading plans might actually work for you. You have to try them to see. They are useful because you can print out a list of your daily readings and then you always know where you are in the bible. You just check off the readings as you finish them. Your bible probably has a bible reading planner in the front or back, or you can find one on the many web sites out there such as this one (http://www.heartlight.org/devotionals/reading_plans/)
I don't use yearly reading plans because i found that I wasn't getting enough momentum going, and it was too slow for me. I thought that maybe it would actually work for me to start with genesis and just plow through at my own pace (a fast pace) so that I would get more of a sense for the whole story of the bible. I also read some New Testement as the Spirit moves me since I read the sayings of Jesus (I like the bibles where his words are in red print), and also the epistles which many of them can be read in a sitting. Most people recommend the yearly reading plans because they have you read both the old testement and the new testement in equal portions daily. There are also topical reading plans. Or NT only reading plans. SKy's the limit really.

Prayer is a big part of my reading. I try to start in prayer, asking God to help me read, to understand, to retain, etc. I also have had to repent at times of pride in my studies. I sometimes stop and pray for situations and people as I am reading, because my studies will remind me of things that need prayer. I see my reading times as meditation and prayer and fellowship with God. Sometimes it's more "deep" than other times.

You might also find inspiration from getting involved in a bible study with some other folks at church, perhaps a men's group. Because although the study with them will be different than your private readings, it will get you excited about the word, hopefully. My inspiration came from participating in a "Bible reading club" one year at my church.
 
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hello,

I ussually only read one chapter a day. I say, "A chapter a day will keep the devil away." While I'm reading this chapter I read it meditatively, in other words I focus on what is being said, the context with which it is said, the circumstances, etc. I do this without the aid of commentaries, for we already have a Good Teacher. After reading it I spend some time, usually the remainder of the day, praying on the meaning and many lessons contained within that chapter.

Peace-
 
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My brother...I can relate. I struggle with this everyday. At times I do so well...but then I fall back down again to what I once was...going weeks without touching the Bible. What I have found that works well is to get a devotional book. The one I use is called "One Minute Bible For Teens." Find one that suits you and then stick to it. It only takes a minute to read. And here is a link that I have found for prayers.
http://www.jesuit.ie/prayer/

Hope this goes well for you, I'll pray for you in this struggle.
 
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