but I m wondering, if two persons r dated, and planing to get married. If suddenly one of them got an accident and lost the sexual ability, Will they still get married?
Is this a real case scenario? Because if not, you lack imagination. How about being stranded on a desert island with whatever movie star?
In a real situation, you will recall Dana Reeve (the late wife of the late Christopher Reeve). Til Death do us part. That's the risk you take going into marriage. That one or both may be sexually incapacitated. But ahead of time? It depends on the level of love and commitment.
As one lady posted here already, she would but doubts her husband would have. Either she knows he's not as in love with her as she is with him... or she's never given him the chance to show or feel it.
I don't say that lightly. What I mean is, both genders are with holders. Women have the most known reputation for what is commonly called the silent treatment... the "if you don't know I'm not gonna tell you" syndrome. But men withhold in different ways.
We get silent, distant, detached... I am sure you've experienced this. But what causes it is being belittled by our wife or having our authority challenged or despised. I do not know a man alive who if given the respect God intended him to have would not readily die for his wife and children.
You say, I don't disrespect him or challenge him... in little ways you do. When driving do you belittle him for driving past a turn? Do you undercut decisions he makes without consulting him first in a humble way? These seemingly small things cut deeply.
To help you understand, if you need him to fawn over you in the dress you are wearing that evening and he doesn't or is half hearted about it... that seemingly small thing cuts deeply doesn't it? It wears on your estimation of yourself because you doubt his estimation of you. And so on.
In response to your statement, he may well not love you the way you love him... but he might... and he might not even be aware of it himself. My point is, by both men and women going about marriage as God prescribes, it bring out the most in both. Any other way for whatever reason and no matter how good the reason may sound only inhibits marital love and its fullest potential.
So, surprise surprise God's way works. Go figure.
He may well have married you anyway. There's only one way to find out (because it's never to late to begin doing things God's way).
God bless you.
