OK. So, temporal punishment is a result of temporal sins. Basically what comes comes around goes around.
No not exactly. Temporal punishment is the result of sin. Its the temporal effect that is left over from committing a sin. The consequence if you will.
Christ said that he came to fulfill the law, not to abrogate it. That every penny of the sin debt must be paid. (Matt 5:26)
For a hypothetical example; one may commit fornication and suffer a disease as a result. Though they may repent with sincere contrition of heart or even imperfect contrition and by choosing to do what is right, receive absolution from one of Gods Priests who have that faculty (to act in Christ), and change their ways, amend their lives and be absolved by God of sinning against him and even ones self, the disease they retain would be the temporal effect of their sin.
And I understand clearly that there are people who simply would no "really" confess or forgive someone from the heart, etc.
So, stuff like this remains on one's conscience.
The temporal sin remains, simply because a person cannot or would not admit and confess everything he did wrong.
Excuses and explanations are the usual cover up.
Again not exactly, as explained above, temporal effects are the consequences of a sin that may very well be forgiven, but not every penny of its debt is yet repaid. If we leave this life with those debts, they may or may not prevent us from heaven. That is up to God to determine if the last penny is paid or not. But our inherent concupiscence can preclude us from entering heaven because of the effect it has on our disposition. We cannot enter heaven with a proclivity to sin. If we have not cooperated fully with grace then we will not be ready. That does not necessarily mean we have not chosen God before dying. In that situation God, in his Mercy, provides for a mean of purification so that we may be admitted to full union with him. This provision is what we call purgation. Anyone with the correct understanding would be unable to be afraid of such purification because the goal would outweigh the fear. Just as having a wound dressed or a tooth fixed would. There may be a twinge in the process but the result is being fully healed.
(By the way. I am terrible at reading links. I'd rather have one-on-one).
You asked for a better definition of the stain of sin. Why ask if your not interested in the background when it is given to you?
Lets look at the Catechism again which may help to understand what "temporal" means:
1472 To understand this doctrine and practice of the Church, it is necessary to understand that sin has a
double consequence. Grave sin deprives us of communion with God and therefore makes us incapable of eternal life, the privation of which is called the "eternal punishment" of sin. On the other hand every sin, even venial, entails an unhealthy attachment to creatures, which must be purified either here on earth, or after death in the state called Purgatory. This purification frees one from what is called the "temporal punishment" of sin. These two punishments must not be conceived of as a kind of vengeance inflicted by God from without, but as following from the very nature of sin.
A conversion which proceeds from a fervent charity can attain the complete purification of the sinner in such a way that no punishment would remain. [Part of attaining that complete purification would be repaying every penny. For example, enduring or making amends for the temporal effect of the sin committed.]
1473 The forgiveness of sin and restoration of communion with God entail the remission of the eternal punishment of sin,
but temporal punishment of sin remains. While patiently bearing sufferings and trials of all kinds and, when the day comes, serenely facing death,
the Christian must strive to accept this temporal punishment of sin as a grace. He should strive by works of mercy and charity, as well as by prayer and the various practices of penance, to put off completely the "old man" and to put on the "new man."
For another hypothetical practical example; Lets say someone commits adultery and their spouse cannot forgive and commits the sin of divorce. Part of that pain for the adulterer is that abandonment and can even be to be liable for support of children they suffer separation from. They repent, are sincerely sorry, amend their whole lives and are redeemed by the blood of Jesus, yet the consequence of their sin remains and if they are to be completely redeemed they must remain responsible and repay as Jesus said; every last cent to the best of their ability.
If I'm in a ball park, what is the difference between Hades and Purgatory?
Hell is the permanent absence of God. That anguish is eternal separation from God by ones willful choice. Purgatory is a removal of ones residual proclivity to sin. The sinfulness that we have prayed to be free of here on Earth.
What I mean is this. Hades has compartments. The greatest of sinners suffer a lot and the good people sleep there. (At least that's the way it was in the OT [Sheol] with a carry-over to NT [Hades]).
(The Great White Throne Judgment comes in the future and there is that "second" hell called Gehenna or Burning Lake).
Hades also (probably) had the compartment of Abraham's Bosom as well.
Is Purgatory in Hades?
Prior to the coming and redemption of Jesus the gates of heaven were closed. There were many who were justified who could not enter heaven. They were not in hell or heaven. They were in a place awaiting the redemption of Christ that we often describe as the Bosom of Abraham. Scripture describes Jesus going there to welcome them home.
You are not afraid of Purgatory because it is an assurance of Heaven.
Fair enough. I find this fascinating.
Not only for that reason but because I see it as a removal of my residual inherent sinfulness that I abhor because it has separated me from God.
So, in a way you do not mind the pain?
I do not see it as pain, any more than I would see practicing virtue that denies my sinful nature as painful. That the pursuit of holiness is painful is unrealistic, while someone who is a slave to sin might disagree. This would be a worldly view of sin and virtue. The worldly prefers the self as ones center when God tells us that he is our center and that submitting to he as our center is for our best interest.
I am bringing the topic of pain again because that is my practical understanding of Purgatory, pain ... and this is such a unique teaching ... and pain is something so feared and shunned by people.
Which is a fear of the flesh. Doing Gods will sometimes requires overcoming natural fear. Not all perceived pain is bad. That belief comes from a prosperity Gospel that is unbiblical.
The pain part makes no sense to me.
Purgatory as painless purification? - sure.
We do pray Lord's Prayer every day daily sins.
We do mess up every day ...
I would understand if purification would be made in a painless manner.
But if a poor woman asks God for mercy, would she get pain?
You see what I mean?
Yes I do. It is the fruit of sin that is painful though no one can recognize that without the graces of the Holy Spirit. The word tells us such purification can be as if by fire.
1 Corinthians 3:15
If any man's work burn, he shall suffer loss; but he himself shall be saved, yet so as by fire.
We all go through many fires of sorts even here on Earth:
1 Corinthians 3:13
Every man's work shall be manifest; for the day of the Lord shall declare it, because it shall be revealed in fire; and the fire shall try every man's work, of what sort it is.
We call these trials that God allows. They give our sufferings that we bear redemptive meaning.
Perhaps you have exercised and heard that if there is no pain there is no gain. But would you call the exertion from exercise that makes you stronger and healthier a pain to avoid? What is the result of avoiding that pain? The results are a hastened death. Sin as well, is a hastening of death of the soul.
Back to the Catechism: the Christian must strive to accept this temporal punishment of sin as a grace. [because it is allowed by the Lord to guide us to him.] We must chose to cooperate with God allows or to make amends for what sin causes the best we are able. God will know our hearts. We cannot decieve him. To think we can is to decieve ourselves.
Purification, even if painful, IS Mercy. The flesh is temporal, the soul is immortal. Fear not the one who can destroy the flesh but the one who can destroy the soul. (Mat 10:28) Purgatory is a cleansing of the soul. What people fear may be a pain of the flesh, never realizing the difference.