1) Everything! Physically attractive and smart are at the top. But nothing and i mean NOTHING now gets considered if the girl isn't head-over-heels in love with Jesus. Everything else is temporary so why build your most important worldly relationship around anything but Jesus? I want someone who is going to help me grow in my relationship to the Father. Not someone that I have to "carry" the whole way. This is one part of the Grace God has extended me from one deep heartbreak.
2) N/A
3) no and yes. I feel like it is a Christians responsibility to have kids (since you will theoretically teach them God's commands and populate the earth with more Christ-followers), but i just have a hard time with kids at the moment (whiny, smelly, loud, you know....kids

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