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1.)What do you look for in a girl?
Whether or not she is my dear fiancee! ;)

2.)If you are married or committed, what's your favorite quality in your spouse/ partner?
I deeply appreciate a million things about my beloved. She is a talented writer, and an artist... she knows what she believes in, and she if very loyal to that... and she loves me, a feat I might have thought impossible...

3.)Do you want kids?
Eventually. I have a strong paternal drive, and my companion also wants children, but that is probably a few years in the future yet.
 
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1.) EVERYTHING! Everything is important in a relationship. All aspects of their person, who they are, are important. To limit to a few things to look for is silly and foolish if you're looking to get into a serious relationship.
2.) I don't have a particular, it goes back to what I said in the first. Everything is important in making up the person you are with. Of course, major issues being trust, faith, personality, and yes, physical attraction. All of which must reach your expectations in a good relationship.
3.) Yes. Eventually. Not for a couple more years though.
 
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1.)What do you look for in a girl?

I look for a girl who's attractive to me (most are), and who's a devouted Christian. After that I try to get to know her, is she a fun person to me? Do we get along? Does she act like a lady? (Now when I say this I don't actually have higher expectations on her then I would on a guy that I'm friends with. I just don't want to marry someone who often uses vulgar language all the time or speaks about vulgar topics.)

2.)If you are married or committed, what's your favorite quality in your spouse/ partner?

N/A

3.)Do you want kids?

Somewhere between 3 and 6 ideally. Although I will see how things go. I really want to have a daughter so if I just get my baby girl, I think I'll be happy.
 
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1.)What do you look for in a girl?
2.)If you are married or committed, what's your favorite quality in your spouse/ partner?
3.)Do you want kids?

1) Everything! Physically attractive and smart are at the top. But nothing and i mean NOTHING now gets considered if the girl isn't head-over-heels in love with Jesus. Everything else is temporary so why build your most important worldly relationship around anything but Jesus? I want someone who is going to help me grow in my relationship to the Father. Not someone that I have to "carry" the whole way. This is one part of the Grace God has extended me from one deep heartbreak.

2) N/A

3) no and yes. I feel like it is a Christians responsibility to have kids (since you will theoretically teach them God's commands and populate the earth with more Christ-followers), but i just have a hard time with kids at the moment (whiny, smelly, loud, you know....kids :D )
 
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1.) EVERYTHING! Everything is important in a relationship. All aspects of their person, who they are, are important. To limit to a few things to look for is silly and foolish if you're looking to get into a serious relationship.
2.) I don't have a particular, it goes back to what I said in the first. Everything is important in making up the person you are with. Of course, major issues being trust, faith, personality, and yes, physical attraction. All of which must reach your expectations in a good relationship.
3.) Yes. Eventually. Not for a couple more years though.
...easy does it buddy I'm just trying to make conversation:o
 
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1) Everything! Physically attractive and smart are at the top. But nothing and i mean NOTHING now gets considered if the girl isn't head-over-heels in love with Jesus. Everything else is temporary so why build your most important worldly relationship around anything but Jesus? I want someone who is going to help me grow in my relationship to the Father. Not someone that I have to "carry" the whole way. This is one part of the Grace God has extended me from one deep heartbreak.

2) N/A

3) no and yes. I feel like it is a Christians responsibility to have kids (since you will theoretically teach them God's commands and populate the earth with more Christ-followers), but i just have a hard time with kids at the moment (whiny, smelly, loud, you know....kids :D )
...LOL^_^
 
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Somewhere between 3 and 6 ideally. Although I will see how things go. I really want to have a daughter so if I just get my baby girl, I think I'll be happy.

Aw, that's so cute! My brother's the same way; he wants something like five girls and one boy. I think it's neat because most guys that I know tend to want sons.:)
 
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Aw, that's so cute! My brother's the same way; he wants something like five girls and one boy. I think it's neat because most guys that I know tend to want sons.:)

I don't want that many girls (too much estrogen) but I do want a daughter.

I never had a sister and I always wanted one. In fact I treat some of my cousins and my brother's GF (long term) as though they where sisters sometimes because of it. (Because of how close she is with the family my mom has actually referred to her as my sister. "Kirk come help your sister with her homework" "Mom I wasn't aware I had a sister." "You know what I mean just get over here.")

The reason I want a daughter is though I'm not a totally emotional guy I'm still a sensative guy and its always seemed to me that daughters always have a much closer and loving relationship with their daddies then then sons do.

I mean for further evidence of this look at weddings. In some ways a wedding often seems partially like a goodbye cerimony between the bride and her father. Is the bride's mother involved in the wedding? Rarely. . . but the father daughter dance and the father walking her down the aisle. It just always seemed like the father/daughter bond was really special and thats just something I want to experience for myself.
 
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1. Love of the Lord and others, I guess personal things as well, otherwise there would be no attraction. Some of the answers would be good.. but I'm not really interested in this sort of thing.. relationships/dating.
2. N/A
3. No, not really, but i'd prefer girls because generally I prefer the company of women..
 
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1: Christian, honesty, humility, confidence, sense of humor, loving

2: Everything in that list, but if I had to name the top two they would be her incredible honesty and sense of humor.

3: Definitely.
 
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The reality of things is, you will never find a perfect match.
Not to say you should lower your standards -- you shouldn't -- but if I met a woman who was perfect in every way imaginable, I'd get very suspiciious.

In the long run, it's not what attracts you to a person, it's what you can stand about them.
 
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The reality of things is, you will never find a perfect match.
Not to say you should lower your standards -- you shouldn't -- but if I met a woman who was perfect in every way imaginable, I'd get very suspiciious.

In the long run, it's not what attracts you to a person, it's what you can stand about them.
:thumbsup:
 
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I don't want that many girls (too much estrogen) but I do want a daughter.

I never had a sister and I always wanted one. In fact I treat some of my cousins and my brother's GF (long term) as though they where sisters sometimes because of it. (Because of how close she is with the family my mom has actually referred to her as my sister. "Kirk come help your sister with her homework" "Mom I wasn't aware I had a sister." "You know what I mean just get over here.")

The reason I want a daughter is though I'm not a totally emotional guy I'm still a sensative guy and its always seemed to me that daughters always have a much closer and loving relationship with their daddies then then sons do.

I mean for further evidence of this look at weddings. In some ways a wedding often seems partially like a goodbye cerimony between the bride and her father. Is the bride's mother involved in the wedding? Rarely. . . but the father daughter dance and the father walking her down the aisle. It just always seemed like the father/daughter bond was really special and thats just something I want to experience for myself.
I wouldn't mind either, but I'll probably get the Radioman's curse though.
 
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1.)What do you look for in a girl?
at this point in my life, i really don't know. the qualities that i find important, i can find in a mere friend. so as for a mate, i don't know what i look for anymore.

2.)If you are married or committed, what's your favorite quality in your spouse/ partner?
i'm currently in a situation where we're trying to work things out after a big fallout. it's a good but odd time for me to say the least. to say what i find to be the favorite about her is well kind of learning over again who we are. but suffice it to say for now, right now how she is acting is the favorite aspect of her. her ability to accept me as me and to stand by me, very well knowing the future is uncertain. so i guess in other words, her committment. other things i love about her are her mannerisms. absolutely wonderful. one time we were on a bus, and i said something to her, and she didn't hear me. i don't know if it was because of the loudness of the bus, and the people or her hearing problems, but when she looked at me, her eyes just shined so bright and she smiled so big. it was and is still my favorite memory of us.

3.)Do you want kids?
no. that could change in the future, but i have lost/no desire for children.
 
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