question..

[girlofgrace727]

so, about this best friend of mine that I really really like

I've heard forever from most people how the guy needs to be the one to persue the girl...and I can say that he has persued me kinda, in a very subtal way..I think because of the fact that we are such good friends, and when we were younger used to laugh at people when they said we would get married

so I personally think he is scared of rejection..I am scared to admit that I have fallen for him, but I really want him to know..and I think that if I let him know that I like him, that he obviously won't be scared of rejection...

is it wrong for the girl to make the first move? I've just always been told "let him persue you"

I just think I will go nuts if I dont figure out what we are both feeling SOON

 

[halifaxhoney]

It's not wrong for a girl to make the first move. I think you should tell him. You could miss out if you don't.

Good luck and let me know how it goes!

 

[Quantum_Man]

It is sooooo NOT WRONG for the girl to make the first move. My current fiance made the first move and told me before we started dating that she liked me. And boy am I glad she did!

 

[seangoh]

Actually statistics show that girls make the first move most of the time. How is that possible? Because girls show their intentions subtely thus creating opportunities for guys to come in. That's why guys sometimes feel they were the ones who did the chasing but without realising that it's the girls who have created the way for them. Just my insight.