This may sound dumb, but I really don't know a whole lot about dating. I have a few questions. Okay the first question is do you have to wait like three days after a date to call a guy? I've heard people say you should wait. The second question is after how many dates do you know a guy wants you to be his girlfriend? Also, what is courting? That may be the route I want to go. I don't want to date, just to date. I want to find my future spouse. I feel like such a preteen right now. Haha. Anyways could someone please help me?
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Chihiro99 said:
Uh... the guy should call you, and it should usually be the day after. He'll ask you to "be his girlfriend," "go steady," "get serious," when he's ready to go to the next level. Courting is another name for dating, but generally it indicates that you're dating with the intent of assessing each other for marriageable qualities. That is, you're dating because you're looking for a husband/wife.
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The label doesn't matter, so long as you are pursuing this in a way that is honoring to God. Generally speaking, courting means dating for marriage. If you cannot imagine marrying a particular guy, then you should not date him, and so forth. You have the right idea.Chihiro99 said:
I'm not sure about the 'rules' nor would I be too concerned with those. Just be concerned with staying focussed on the Lord.
God bless
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