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Hi All,
I think I just need to talk.

I have had some issues in the past 4 weeks where I have not been able to get out of bed hardly at all, I am so out of breath I feel like I'm going to collapse, cannot go to work, I had one really bad chest pain episode, frequent migraines, palpitations like crazy and nausea. We already know I have an enlarged liver. I'm 40 years old and I smoke cigs. I've been to the doctor 3 times so far. All she kept saying was I must be depressed. Yes, I've had a ton of things going on recently, but I would not buy the depression theory. I have never been able to take anti-depressants - they make me insane literally so I tried to explain to my doctor that, but she just had it in her head I had to be depressed. I just knew it had to be something physical. She kept giving them darn pills to me to try. Finally, yesterday I went again- in tears (didn't look too good since I wasn't supposed to be depressed after all )to see her and begged her to please please listen to me and do a chest xray or something..please check for something physical. She snapped at me and said fine, she'd do a chest xray, EKG and blood work and when it came back normal I'd need to see a pychiatrist. I agreed. After she got the xray and ekg back she changed her tone. She said, "It looks like you have lung disease and your bones are extremely thin (60yr old) and your EKG doesn't look good, you need to see a cardiologist right away, and Oh I can see why you are having a hard time breathing" :swoon:
WOW What does it take to get diagnosed correctly??

I'm terrified, but at the same time happy she found out something.
I'm wondering, does anyone know what the cardiologist will do? And lung disease?? What do they do to find out exactly what that's about??
I Just someone talk to, after all that, I may end up depressed! :cry:

Thanks for reading.
 

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I went in to the ER to get some medicine to knock bronchitis and help me to breathe...

doctor took some xrays, ran some tests .... asked a few questions ...
how long have you had an irregular heart beat ?.....say what?
when did you have the heart attack .... what heart attack?
at some point this may be the best it gets ... pleursy & emphysema

it seems like 10,0000 things all come at once... tired, sick, weak, and angry all at the same time ....

I had a week in the hospital without smokes... knew that I would fare better in open heart surgery if I didn't smoke until they were done... asked God for help.... each day my breathing got better....each day I got a little stronger, wiser, and further

the catherization was ok, laying there for a season for artery to heal kind of stunk....
the first week after the open heart surgery and 4 way bypass was a trip... pain medicine, a little breathing deal , a stuffed animal ....

you can't do stuff now.... but now is not forever .... Habakkuk 2.2 ... do the right think , take a step of faith now, put your faith in Jesus, Php 4.8,13, Matthew 19.26

start thinking about what you can do with an extra hundred , two hundred, or there hundred a month .... now that you quit .... romans 4.17 speaking of what will be ...

you can do this ... I did .... smoked from 1968 to january 1 of 2008 ...40 years and quit .... so I can spend time with my grandson, ride my motorcycle, hug my wife ...

what will you do withyour extra time , given you by God?
 
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