I guess I feel lucky that I have the best of "both worlds". I belong to a church that if one were on the outside looking in, would think "cotton candy" and if one were biased against mega churches, would never attend.
However, the sermons are not fluffy, and the pastor and all the elders are solid Calvinists.
We have started a church plant about an hour and a half or so from this church, in an area that demographically is SORELY lacking in churches(well, church going people anyway--seems ohio is not short on churches per capita anywhere).
We are a mega-church just barely---with a little over 2000 attendies each weekend over 3 services. But we have less than 1000 actual members, in part because at membership class, they make it clear that they want participation and involvement in our members, not just a signed peice of paper. Not that they kick you out if you are not involved, but they stress that by signing a membership agreement, you are agreeing to a lot more than just turning up once a week, you are agreeing to support and help the church. We have something like 80% of our members that are active in the church somewhere.
Honestly, if if were not for the solid preaching and the ephesis on discipleship and maturing, my husband and I would be going somewhere else, because neither of us like big crowds. In fact, we had no intentions of joining a large church. My husband was particularly wary of attending this one----but I had gone on a couple of Wednesday night services with my sister-in-law, who was going only because it was right next to a bowling alley and her husband(my brother) was bowling on Wednesday evenings, so she would drop him off and go the church! Funny how things work out sometimes! Because if it weren't for that, I would have never in a million years gone on my own. Precisely because of my feelings on "McChurches"
One of the things you must get past in a big church is that there are going to be people there who go just becuase it's the "in" place to go, or to "be seen" or something like that. It's inevitable. The discipleship is available, the classes are there, but you can't make people take them. Our pastor makes it plain that showing up once a week at his church is not what he is after, nor the tithe. He is quite plain that he wants the congregation to mature, and to participate. However, he can't stand over everyone and crack a whip.
I'm sure that there are mega-churches out there who are much more interested in the numbers than in the maturity and growth of the members, but I feel lucky that our church is not like that. In fact, I've seen several practices that I felt were a little too fluffy, or faddish be thrown out completely in favor of keeping things more God-focused. I've seen the song-list be tapered to those that glorify God alone, and songs that were me-centered suddenly no longer sung.
They've changed the Wednesday format to a more studying format, less like the weekend services---because the Wednesday services are for growth and maturity, they expect that those who show up on Wednesdays are christians and there to mature and learn.
man, I just looked back on what I've typed and realize I sound like I'm justifying the mega-church. In reality, I feel almost guilty for enjoying the church as I do. I feel a bit 'shallow' I guess, because my standards don't seem to be as high. Honestly though, this church does challenge me to grow and learn. I see the benefits of the large church, and I see the positive changes that have taken place using the "Purpose Driven Church" formula. YES, I am saying that there can be a positive!
I was very skeptical of our church doing the 40 Days Of Purpose, and rather reluctantly go involved, but I felt positively chagrined when I went to the dinner held for the Home leaders and heard stories of how God had used them, and stories of conversion and growth. I cannot discount the good it did in our church.
I guess i should stop while I'm ahead here. While I would probably enjoy a smaller church with less members, I think that I would have a very hard time finding a church that offered what this one does in terms of growth, discipleship, and good preaching.
BTW, what do you all think of Allister Begg's church? It qualifies as mega, yet from what I've heard on the raidio of his, he does not compromise the message in any way, shape or form.