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wolflady

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Hi everyone,

I know I feel struggle with George. When he and I met in LYC, I did attract him in his personal. He and I talked a chatting about five months. Also, I did ask him on many questions. He is a christian, but he had been already his three sons. He is a big mistaken in his past life. He is 42 years old and work his own aircraft.

I am very interesting about him, but I feel not sure. He wants me to go with sexual relationship before marriage. He wants me to become a pregnancy first after marriage. By the way, I feel stick from him. However, it's warning to me. He believes so that He said a few christian had in sexual relationship about marriage and divorce. It's christian views. I said that it's not true.

Can you help an advisior to me? please to help!!!!

Christy
 

John the Engineer

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If he's pushing you to have sex then he is pushing you out of what you know is right before God. That is why you feel sick and you need to either stand firm in your belief first or leave him and make it perfectly clear.

Remember we are first in love with the Lord, and we should always seek to do his will, then second we are to pursue a love in this world.
 
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Lizzi4Christ

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He's trying to get you to do things you feel are wrong? You really shouldn't see him anymore.

More importantly, he's pusing you to do things that are against God's Will (sex before marriage). That's dangerous.

If I was you, I would totally cut ties with him.
 
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Kirisutokyoo-shinja

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We all feel things that we think are stupid sometimes. I am glad that you realized that he is not following a Christlike lifestyle. Don't let him pressure you into doing wrong. You are doing a great job so far. Shut off relations with him, it will be good for you.
 
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DaveKerwin

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Forget you met him. Run far from him. Do not date him, do not marry him.

Christy, you need to find a man who respects you and respects Jesus. George does not respect you or Jesus. Do not be with him. George is bad, find a new man who respects you, and respects Jesus.
 
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