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Question for veterans of quitting

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How long before you become normal again? Or, anoher way to put it- how long before your biological, mental, and emotional systems reach a point where they are behaving in a consistent fashion?
As an example, I'll use my sleep pattern(s).
(BTW, I hit the sauce very heavily for 20ish years daily. ALWAYS drank at night, and drank myself to passing out nearly every night. So, sleep disfunction was to be exprected when I quit just over a year ago.)
Over the year + that I haven't drank, I went from not being able to sleep well at all in the begining of quiting. Waking up startled, sweating, shaking, etc. Slowly, over a period of several months, this went away. Then a period where it took 2-4 hours to fall asleep, which still felt pretty good because it was restfull sleep, even though I was getting only 4-6 hours per night.
Now I'm at a stage where I fall asleep pretty quickly, but after 7 hours of sleep I still feel like I could sleep another 2 or 3 hours.
I'm hoping, again, using sleep as merely an example, that this will level out to something consistent.
My hope is that it won't take 20ish years, as that is what I invested in my drinking lifestyle.
Any help would be appreciated.
Spencer

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Also- SWEETS! I'm craving sweets like it aint no bodies business. You hear about folks dropping weight when they quit drinking. I've put on 30 lbs!!
I understand this has something to do with the way alcohol interacts with blood sugar levels.
 
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If you have been sober for a year, and are still having difficulty sleeping, it might be a good idea to discuss all of this with your doctor and get a good physical as well. There are safe meds that can be prescribed to help with this.

As for sugar, alcohol is a sugar, so when you take that out of your diet, your body is going to continue to crave it at the level it was getting it during your drinking. Try to wean off sugar altogether. The pancreas, the organ that metabolizes sugar, takes a beating with us alcoholics, so it would not hurt wean off it. Try eating whole grains to get carbs, and good proteins instead.

Good luck.
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ive always ahd a problem sleeping, and alcohol sure helped out with that. sleeping, passing out, either way i wasnt awake.

i have found that oatmeal makes me sleep good if i eat near bedtime. weird but true.

another thing to rty is to sleep just a little less as an experiment. if you sleep 7 hours and feel you need more, try 6 hours. i know if i sleep 8 or more, i feel like i need more. if i sleep 6 or 7, im slow to rise but i feel better all day.

i hope my weird advice helps.



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