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As an overall theme I think it's true. I have never heard of the news story but if a man was there I'd suspect he'd be more pressured to take on that mountain lion. Motherhood certainly has it's protective elements but it's more of a last defense.

It would have been the man's job to have dealt with the mountain lion while it was still out in the yard.
 
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I honestly don't know what a "third" gender is. I really only believe in the male and female and the mix in between. If someone wants to call that mix a "third" gender they can, personally I think the term is bizarre.

Well, you're speaking of "genders" when, I guess, the concept of "gender" is considered now to be a psychological continuum that only adheres to the physical at certain points. There is considerable debate, however, within the LGBTQ... communities (notice I pluralized it) as to where that continuum adheres to the physical.

If we speak of "sex" (that is, the physical manifestation), the only way there would be a true third sex is if in some way it was part of the reproductive process. There was a Star Trek: Enterprise episode about that. A humanoid species had a male supplying the sperm, a female supplying the egg, and a third sex that supplied the uterus...kind of a naturally evolved surrogate mother.
 
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I'm not sure about that. Transexuals call "transphobe" on a lot of homosexuals.

I think there are differences, although I think the challenge to perceived gender roles is a strong hatred for both of them.
 
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Yeah, something which surprises me. You'd think some transgenders would want more ground on gender having real physical realities (in the brain), yet many go for the idea that gender and the like are a result of mostly culture. Which is pretty laughable.

The consequence of the transgender community having to adhere to the wishes of the feminist community. I know of one transgender woman who had a more biological view but after being lambasted by fellow feminists she suddenly switched her position and said gender is more of a cultural construct. Something that probably kills her inside.


That's interesting.. yeah there's not reason for a 3rd anything to have any evolutionary basis. 3rd gender seems more like terminology that is used by people who want to seem more deep and interesting than they actually are.. lol.
 
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No, I think it goes back to the old testament. At least as far as our Western culture goes.

Why are star wars and superhero movies somehow okay?
The Reasons Why Christ Redeemed Men Rather than Angels

 
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Do you mean they have a brain related to that of people with different anatomy?
 
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Why do you think certain syonoyms have words with a certain nuance that only apply to one gender? A womanizer is a man who objectifies women. I don't think there is an exact female equivalent, as there just aren't near as many women who objectify men.
Or with homosexuality there are terms that specifically and only apply to females and there is no exact male equivalent.
 
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So, does my sister and her husband. I understand that.
Most of us would agree that "baby" is usually affectionate, even though it refers to a young person as something like an infant. And it normally is reserved for someone who is actually close to you, not women in general.

"Chick" IMHO is also used of a young woman, so that's why "lady" wouldn't usually work well, but it doesn't carry with it the same sort of affectionate overtone that "baby" does.

That's either a good thing or a bad thing, depending on how the language police choose to look at it.
 
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Women saying the c word or homophobic jokes or being promiscuous is not seen as bad as men who do the same exact thing.
 
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Yes, "chick" is disrespectful, and our young people here are instructed not to speak of women in that fashion.
 
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Why wouldnt the term lady work well? I hate the term young lady it just sounds like trying to mix two different categories.
 
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Why wouldnt the term lady work well? I hate the term young lady it just sounds like trying to mix two different categories.

Sammy,

I prefer lady as a term of endearment or descriptor used by strangers. Baby implies a measure of intimacy that’s inappropriate for general use in my opinion. Young lady is fine too.

It’s the intent behind the remark that matters most. When we wish to convey kindness and respect we know the appropriate words for each. If you want to be flippant or suggestive you’ll choose words along those lines.

Yours in His Service,

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I dont agree with patronizing people, its a gender double standard.
 
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It sounds like its a reference to hens laying eggs.
 
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