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<blockquote data-quote="Resha Caner" data-source="post: 67284997" data-attributes="member: 269139"><p>I get the impression you thought my question was rude. I'm trying to discern if you did indeed think it was rude and for what reason. Was it the way I asked it? Was it because I asked about something you hadn't included in your response? Was it because it was me who asked it?</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I infer from this it was one word that put you out. Sometimes I am also asked a question that at first appears rude. I try to reply to the content of the question and avoid reacting to the way it was phrased. As I said, I try. I'm not always successful.</p><p></p><p>And that's just me. As we've agreed, our approaches are very different.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I wanted to know if you had considered it. We go through this every time we interact. I have to ask a question ten different ways before I find a phrasing you don't consider stupid, offensive, unintelligible, irrelevant, etc. I just consider asking questions to be part of conversation.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I try, but when I correct something you've said about me that is wrong, you again tell me I'm wrong. It seems I'm so wrong that I don't even know who I am or what you've said about me. Since you know me better than I know myself, I'll leave you to make your comments.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yes. Why do you ask? Would this somehow make it wrong for me to recommend that counselor?</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I still disagree. You are making the issue of age all about me and you; what my choice and your choice would be. Yes, for me there is only one option. You would weigh all kinds of factors, but age is not "particularly significant".</p><p></p><p>But for me this conversation is not about you and me. It's about the girl. It's about the counseling she needs to overcome the trauma of rape. During the time I'm involved with this girl my view of abortion may never come up. If it does, how I respond <u>would</u> depend in part on her age. I've <u>never</u> tried to say her age would affect <u>my</u> view of abortion. But her age <u>would</u> be one consideration of when, how, and even if I ever share that view with her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Resha Caner, post: 67284997, member: 269139"] I get the impression you thought my question was rude. I'm trying to discern if you did indeed think it was rude and for what reason. Was it the way I asked it? Was it because I asked about something you hadn't included in your response? Was it because it was me who asked it? I infer from this it was one word that put you out. Sometimes I am also asked a question that at first appears rude. I try to reply to the content of the question and avoid reacting to the way it was phrased. As I said, I try. I'm not always successful. And that's just me. As we've agreed, our approaches are very different. I wanted to know if you had considered it. We go through this every time we interact. I have to ask a question ten different ways before I find a phrasing you don't consider stupid, offensive, unintelligible, irrelevant, etc. I just consider asking questions to be part of conversation. I try, but when I correct something you've said about me that is wrong, you again tell me I'm wrong. It seems I'm so wrong that I don't even know who I am or what you've said about me. Since you know me better than I know myself, I'll leave you to make your comments. Yes. Why do you ask? Would this somehow make it wrong for me to recommend that counselor? I still disagree. You are making the issue of age all about me and you; what my choice and your choice would be. Yes, for me there is only one option. You would weigh all kinds of factors, but age is not "particularly significant". But for me this conversation is not about you and me. It's about the girl. It's about the counseling she needs to overcome the trauma of rape. During the time I'm involved with this girl my view of abortion may never come up. If it does, how I respond [U]would[/U] depend in part on her age. I've [U]never[/U] tried to say her age would affect [U]my[/U] view of abortion. But her age [U]would[/U] be one consideration of when, how, and even if I ever share that view with her. [/QUOTE]
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