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Purity Rings

NaturallyGone

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I was going through a couple of posts here that mentioned purity rings, and I was just wondering...

What's your opinion on wearing purity rings?

I honestly love it. I mean, yes, you shouldn't need a physical ring, but, when asked, it can also be a great way to outreach to others about Jesus. I honestly wear one 24/7 except for when i'm taking a shower. Also, whenever I am feeling down, it helps to be able to look at my hands, and be reminded that there is someone in the world who will love me for who I am, and the least I can do is to save myself sexually for them.
 
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I honestly love it. I mean, yes, you shouldn't need a physical ring, but, when asked, it can also be a great way to outreach to others about Jesus. I honestly wear one 24/7 except for when i'm taking a shower. Also, whenever I am feeling down, it helps to be able to look at my hands, and be reminded that there is someone in the world who will love me for who I am, and the least I can do is to save myself sexually for them.
Agreed. Except for me instead of a ring, I have a bracelet I got for Generation unleashed. It was the year I became a true Christian(I was lukewarm before that) which was last year. It helps me remember that God is there and He is worthy of nothing of mine because nothing I have is worthy enough for him. Yet He still puts up with me. My life principles? Go listen to "Background" by lecrae. Beautiful song with a very strong meaning. I love it!
 
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Most of the people I knew with them were in sexual relationships. At least, that was true in high school. In college no one wears them anymore.

I think if you're actually saving yourself, that's great, but I faiil to see the point in the rings. Other than that it helps some people feel extra special and unique or something. To each their own. Personally I dont need a ring to remind me not to do it.
 
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Most of the people I knew with them were in sexual relationships. At least, that was true in high school. In college no one wears them anymore.

I think if you're actually saving yourself, that's great, but I faiil to see the point in the rings. Other than that it helps some people feel extra special and unique or something. To each their own. Personally I dont need a ring to remind me not to do it.


~checks what school I'm at~ I'm in college, and at the college I attended last year, tons of people wore purity rings. yes, you don't need a ring to remind you not to do it, but it's still a way that you can possibly share Christ with other people. People ask me all the time if I'm married cause I wear my purity ring on the finger my wedding ring will someday be on, and that gives me a chance to tell them about Christ. But yeah, in high school, I wore a purity ring. In college, I wear a purity ring. I will wear one until the night that I first have sex with my future wife.
 
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I honestly love it. I mean, yes, you shouldn't need a physical ring, but, when asked, it can also be a great way to outreach to others about Jesus. I honestly wear one 24/7 except for when i'm taking a shower. Also, whenever I am feeling down, it helps to be able to look at my hands, and be reminded that there is someone in the world who will love me for who I am, and the least I can do is to save myself sexually for them.

That's actually awesome!
 
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If any future children I may have came home wearing a purity ring, I'd make them eat it.
Same with my little brother, although looking at him I don't think there's any danger of that happening.

Glad to see such a positive attitude.
 
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