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Punishment

snopro879

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If you sin, and you know your sinning while you do it, but you still do it anyways, does it seem like you get punnished for it? It seems like everytime I think to myself, o no this is sinning, but I still continue, the next day something bad happens to me. For instance, I promised God that I would not commit sexual immorality for atleast 2 weeks, and a few days later I broke my promise to him, and I prayed and prayed and asked for forgivness, but the next day I got pulled over and got my first ticket. And the weird part was it was like I knew something was going to happen, I was scared, and sure enough. Now my life has changed because of this anxioty *sp?*. I feel so scared now all the time, like something horrible will happen again. My mom was telling me how shes noticed I've been acting strange. I don't know what to do.
 

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Perhaps you felt you deserved to be punished and so subconsciously drove in a manner that would get you a ticket. In which case, you're beating yourself up; God isn't punishing you.


Norea is in error to say God punishes people by sending them to Hell. Hell is separation from God. If we have not accepted Christ into our hearts, we are in Hell. God doesn't send people to Hell, people choose to stay in Hell.

God does not want His people to sin, but He is quick to forgive. Don't make promises to Him that you can not keep. If you are having a problem controling your desires, ask Him for help, don't assume your moral perfection is a present you can offer Him.

We are saved through grace, not through works, least anyone should boast.
 
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devoted daughter

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Have you ever heard the song, "Instant Karma" by John Lennon? How about "karma police" by Radiohead?

I don't understand exactly how things happen like you mentioned, I just know they do. Accountabilty isn't something we may 'pay' for LATER; it could be sooner than we think! The one thing that we may count on is that payment will come in one way or another.
It makes me more careful with my words and actions.

Thanks for the post, and for sharing vulnerabilities that in one degree or another, we ALL share. :hug:
 
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Norea said:
Punishment is meant to change behavior. To be killed or sentance eternally to place of torment isn't punishment, it's revenge.

-- Bridget
Actually, it's "justice".

I believe what snopro879 is experiencing is "discipline". The fact that he is aware that these things are happening is drawing his attention back to the preceeding sins. He/she should be greatful and repentant.

Son-cerely in Christ,
Nate
 
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elman

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I agree with Buzz and post number 4. Ezekiel 18 teaches us that the soul that sins dies. That is hell, the death of the soul. There are consequences in this physical life of sin-probably not traffic tickets not connected to the sin. There is also consequences of our loving actions in this physical life; and in the spiritual realm there is the consequence of eternal life with God based on His grace and our love for Him and man. We do not have to be perfect to be close to God. If that were true none of us would be there.
 
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