Profanity

[Crispie]

Ephesians 5:4
"4 Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks."

I think thats as basic as it gets for why not to speak profanity.

 

[Grace_of_God]

What do you think of profanity?

I am completely against profanity. As Christians, we are called to live a Godly life. A Godly life isn't filled with profanity.

 

[katherinethegreat]

ehh words are words..they don't kill anyone

 

[Mr. Fields]

This is a recent issue in my household...

I teach my kids that words are just that -- words. No difference between the word fudge or ****, or shoot and ****. I told them I don't really care whether they use them or not, as long as they don't make a habit out of it and as long as they use discretion around whom they use them.

I also teach them that "cursing" is when you pass condemnation or harsh judgment on another person. "You are a jerk" or, "**** you!", for example. This is wrong and I believe this is what scripture is talking about.

Guess what? My kids don't go around swearing all over creation. They also respect the fact that I allow them the same liberty I take on occasion. A kid on my daughter's bus was swearing like crazy one day, and my daughter asked her why she felt the need to cuss so much. The girl replied that it was because her mother would kill her if she were caught doing so, so it was fun to do it when Mom wasn't around. My daughter simply replied "My Dad doesn't care if I swear or not" and didn't feel the need to "join in".

My father beat me within an inch of my life for saying the "f" word when I was about seven. I didn't even know what it meant, I was simply repeating something I had heard.

To this day I have an utter dislike for smoking because I tried a cigarette when I was about 8 (yech!). I have never been drunk (slightly buzzed, but not drunk) because I tried alcohol when I was very young and hated the taste and feeling of it. I feel that sometimes in our quest to protect our children from things we feel are harmful to them, we only push them closer to them as they get older.

People comment that my kids are polite and are well spoken. We have always taught them the value of good communication.

I choose to pick my battles...

 

[Faith In God]

the Scripture is against profanity. back then, profane words were different, but profanity is still profane and is not Christian. Do not encourage two-faced Christianity, please

 

[Mr. Fields]

the Scripture is against profanity. back then, profane words were different, but profanity is still profane and is not Christian.

Did you even read one word of my post?

Do not encourage two-faced Christianity, please

I'm entitled to my opinion as much as you are. If that's a problem for you, you might just want to get over it...

 

[Faith In God]

Did you even read one word of my post?

yes. I did. that does not change scripture commanding us to not have filthy mouths. but it was not really aimed at your post. sorry.

I'm entitled to my opinion as much as you are. If that's a problem for you, you might just want to get over it...

well,

and as long as they use discretion around whom they use them.

this got me off on that point a bit. bad witness to act like two different people (aka bearing false witness).
however, I am glad that this worked for your house. God bless.

 

[Mr. Fields]

yes. I did. that does not change scripture commanding us to not have filthy mouths. but it was not really aimed at your post. sorry.

I agree. I don't want my kids speech littered with cussing. This is why I don't make a huge deal out of it. I think the bigger the deal you make out of it, the more they're going to do it - behind your back...

well, this got me off on that point a bit. bad witness to act like two different people (aka bearing false witness).
however, I am glad that this worked for your house. God bless.

I don't think that quite amounts to bearing false witness... I see it more as being respectful toward people who are offended by certain things.

Blessings to you too.

 

[seebs]

There is nothing two-faced about recognizing that it is what comes from us that makes words sacred or profane, not the words themselves. Mr. Fields appears to have taught his children to avoid profanity entirely, not by superstitiously avoiding certain words, but by teaching them to remove the profanity from those words. Would that more people had that wisdom.

 

[Anovah]

There is nothing two-faced about recognizing that it is what comes from us that makes words sacred or profane, not the words themselves. Mr. Fields appears to have taught his children to avoid profanity entirely, not by superstitiously avoiding certain words, but by teaching them to remove the profanity from those words. Would that more people had that wisdom.

Agreed. Mr. Fields is evidently teaching his children what conduct to avoid. Not just some specific word.

 

[pentecostal girl]

I think that if you're a Christian then you shouldn't curse. I think that it ruins your Christian witness. God Bless

 

[Faith In God]

For those who say that cursing is just words:

then why does the CF not permit it if 'lesser' versions of the word have the same meaning? ie crud, stuff, poop, as opposed to two other words.

 

[flicka]

For those who say that cursing is just words:

then why does the CF not permit it if 'lesser' versions of the word have the same meaning? ie crud, stuff, poop, as opposed to two other words.

Because they have a program to edit out words that may offend people who are offended by words. Whats your point?

 

[Faith In God]

Because they have a program to edit out words that may offend people who are offended by words. Whats your point?

what? I can't say JESUS? that can't be it. I can offend someone just by saying 'In Jesus' name.'

do you really think so??

 

[flicka]

what? I can't say JESUS? that can't be it. I can offend someone just by saying 'In Jesus' name.'

do you really think so??

This post makes no sense in response to mine I was referring to the fact that certain words can't be used on the forums...what were you referring to? Perhaps I misunderstood.

 

[Faith In God]

This post makes no sense in response to mine I was referring to the fact that certain words can't be used on the forums...what were you referring to? Perhaps I misunderstood.

yes. why can't those words be used?? I said, "because they are offensive to some people?? so is Jesus' name."

but I know what you get at, so I'm gonna get off it for your sake.

 

[Anovah]

I think that if you're a Christian then you shouldn't curse. I think that it ruins your Christian witness. God Bless

Would you define cursing as a list of specific words or as using words for the purposes or spit, hate, ect...?

Or [a question to you all...] what if I cursed in a foreign language? How would I know which ones are "the really bad ones" without living in that culture?

 

[Blessed-one]

For those who say that cursing is just words:

then why does the CF not permit it if 'lesser' versions of the word have the same meaning? ie crud, stuff, poop, as opposed to two other words.

not just words, useless words.
and words that can hurt if directed to others.

 

[repentandbelieve]

Would you define cursing as a list of specific words or as using words for the purposes or spit, hate, ect...?

Or [a question to you all...] what if I cursed in a foreign language? How would I know which ones are "the really bad ones" without living in that culture?

Rather than defining the word "cursing" let's define the word "profanity" which is derived from the word profane. The American Standard Dictionary defines profane as 1) characterized by irreverence to, or contempt for, God or sacred things.

 

[Anovah]

Rather than defining the word "cursing" let's define the word "profanity" which is derived from the word profane. The American Standard Dictionary defines profane as 1) characterized by irreverence to, or contempt for, God or sacred things.

Wait... why are we defining profanity?

I think you are saying we should replace the word "cursing" with "profanity". Even if you were to make that switch, we are left with the problem of using very subjective terms to describe this. Who says what is disrespectful and harsh.

In other words, this leads me back to my original question. Is it a list of specific words that can be considered profane or is it the meaning behind those words that is considered profane.

What if I cursed at you in a foreign language? What if I did so and neither of us knew what that word meant? Would it be a sin then? What dictates when a word becomes a sin/wrong?