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me and my current boyfriend have been arguing lately because he wants me to hold him all the time. I still cant do it. i mean im trying but with what i went threw i just cant do it. he use to understand but now it seems like im just getting to him. he knows i had a issues with cutting after my ordeal and when he says things like i need to get over it he dosent understand that when he does that and makes me cry that it hurts. i dont know what to do i mean is it all me should i just get over it?:confused::prayer:
 
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I don't think its something to "just get over" but a healing process over time with treatment particularly. Have you tried talking with a counselor about the struggles you have, particularly if some of your struggles are interferring with your relationship? A good counselor can help you work through some of the trust and comfort issues.
 
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