I have a question concerning my boyfriend of 3 and a half years. it's not a question - but I just need advice on the situation.
He is my first and only boyfriend and my best friend. Hands down he knows the most about me out of anyone (except God) and has always been there for me through thick and thin. For two years we have been "promised" to each other - that if things work out that's great but there's still a chance it won't given our ages (early years of college). In the last year I've grown up a lot and well...it seems like he hasn't. I still love him but am not as attracted to him as I used to be. Seems like things have fizzled out. I can see myself with him long term...just not now. I'm thinking about going on a break - not a break up but a break intending to try again- but things can get awkward with those. I really don't want to lose him permanently but I find myself thinking about meeting other people and even lightly dating. I've prayed to God that if we were meant to be apart to give me some reason to change the status of our relationship and so far there hasn't been one that really says either way. Would greatly appreciate some advice on this delicate subject. Stick it out a while longer? Go on a break? Break up? praying.
He is my first and only boyfriend and my best friend. Hands down he knows the most about me out of anyone (except God) and has always been there for me through thick and thin. For two years we have been "promised" to each other - that if things work out that's great but there's still a chance it won't given our ages (early years of college). In the last year I've grown up a lot and well...it seems like he hasn't. I still love him but am not as attracted to him as I used to be. Seems like things have fizzled out. I can see myself with him long term...just not now. I'm thinking about going on a break - not a break up but a break intending to try again- but things can get awkward with those. I really don't want to lose him permanently but I find myself thinking about meeting other people and even lightly dating. I've prayed to God that if we were meant to be apart to give me some reason to change the status of our relationship and so far there hasn't been one that really says either way. Would greatly appreciate some advice on this delicate subject. Stick it out a while longer? Go on a break? Break up? praying.