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Problem - beginning to lose faith (sort of)

Kaye8

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If you're girlfriend really loves you she won't dump you for pot. If she really cared about you she would just get you help and hold your hand the whole thing. Telling her parents or your parents won't be bad. If you want help you HAVE to tell someone!!! Noone better than parents! Please! let someone know and get hlep and dont try to hide from your gf, she will find out sooner or later and be even madder if you kept it from her for a long time!
 
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Edouard

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You definitely need some accountability and counseling. You are not doomed. As christians we all sin, in different ways, we all have habits that we have to to break, because they bring us away from God.Money, sports, cards, gambling, sex before marriage. We all struggle with some sort of sin that God will break us free. However, it is not easy. Romans tells us, if we do not turn away from our sinful desires, he will turn us over to them. God is there waiting for us to say please Lord help me. And he will help you, If you have faith.

Edouard
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Amen.
 
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feral

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tell your girlfriend. if she really cares about you then she will be supportive of your efforts to quit. if not, she's not strong enough to be with you during this time. in either case get some help. likely you will have to tell your parents, but total honesty does make it easier to quit and stay away from drugs. trust me on this. good luck to you. :)
 
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