Preparing to start divorce

[ecuison]

I confirmed a few weeks ago my wife was cheating on me with 3 guys and still doesn't want to admit it. She is working in Europe and found out when I went to go visit her and my daughter through her diary.

It hurt me but prayed for an answer a long time ago as to whether or not she was having an affair.

I just need as much prayer as possible as I know this is affecting me both mentally and physically as I have been breaking out into stress rashes from all of this.

God Bless,

-Ed

 

[FLANDIDLYANDERS]

If you need to talk on PM, email or MSN, add me

I've been there recently.

 

[ecuison]

Thanks man. I added you to MSN IM. If you don't get one, you can add me. edmundcuison@hotmail.com

God Bless,

-Ed

 

[yourinnervoice]

I confirmed a few weeks ago my wife was cheating on me with 3 guys and still doesn't want to admit it. She is working in Europe and found out when I went to go visit her and my daughter through her diary.

It hurt me but prayed for an answer a long time ago as to whether or not she was having an affair.

I just need as much prayer as possible as I know this is affecting me both mentally and physically as I have been breaking out into stress rashes from all of this.

God Bless,

-Ed

Ed, Be Strong! I will pray for you!
I just separated from my wife after MANY years of marriage. In less than 6 months I lost 30+ pounds! No apetite, didn't want to work or do anything at ALL! I'm normally a very outgoing person. I closed up to everyone and everything. Moved out and living on my own. VERY lonely and you begin to ask questions!!

Don't let your mind play games on you! The enemy will use your mind because he knows that's where the battle is! If you know deep in your heart that you are doing the right thing -Then let God do what He has to do.

FLANDIDLYANDERS has been through it. He can tell you a lot more than I can. Join up with him and take him up on his offer to contact him. You will need men like him to help you through. Surround yourself with people that will lift you up, not bring you down. With people that will make you smile not make you sad. People that will elevate you to new heights!!

Psalms 121

 

[ecuison]

Thank you yourinnervoice, I have lost about 15 pounds so far but everyone says that I have been gaining more muscle since I have been going to the gym a lot to keep my mind off of things. The sad part is my sister went through her divorce almost 3 weeks ago, and my cousin may be going through her's soon.

Thank you for the support.

-Ed

 

[tryingtobeagain]

Praying for you... hoping you find some comfort. We're all here to support each other so lean when you need to.

Also, on a side note... try to keep yourself healthy physically. You need to be there for your daughter and also when you are eating poorly your mood will go down worse.

 

[hope4today]

I'm praying for you Ed. I know the pain of betrayal. Take all the support you can get. God has proven himself faithful to me and he will do the same for you.

Bless you

 

[yourinnervoice]

Thank you yourinnervoice, I have lost about 15 pounds so far but everyone says that I have been gaining more muscle since I have been going to the gym a lot to keep my mind off of things. The sad part is my sister went through her divorce almost 3 weeks ago, and my cousin may be going through her's soon.

Thank you for the support.

-Ed

That's good ecuison that you're going to the gym. I've taken advantage of my weight loss and doing a lot of walking. Put my MP3 player on, listen to some Kirk Franklin, Israel Houghton and Aeeyishah Woods. I love to walk and it's keeping me fit!

Make sure you work on your mind and Spirit as well!

Keep your head up!

 

[ecuison]

Thank you everyone for your prayers.


God Bless,

-Ed

 

[Autumnleaf]

Can you move there or can she move to you? Maybe physically getting back together would help fix things, if that is what you have a mind to do. Distance has been known to hurt relationships. I could tell you stories about when I was in the Marine Corps...

 

[ecuison]

Can you move there or can she move to you? Maybe physically getting back together would help fix things, if that is what you have a mind to do. Distance has been known to hurt relationships. I could tell you stories about when I was in the Marine Corps...

I'll be honest, I found a diary when I visited her almost 3 weeks ago where she pretty much detailed how she was sleeping with 1 guy, was breaking it off because he wanted to sleep with other women, and to get back at him was sleeping with 2 other guys.

I prayed this whole time she was gone which is close to 8 months now ever since she stopped communicating with me. All I have done since then was keep reading my bible and praying over my daughter.

-Ed

 

[hope4today]

My prayers are with you Ed.

 

[Autumnleaf]

I'll be honest, I found a diary when I visited her almost 3 weeks ago where she pretty much detailed how she was sleeping with 1 guy, was breaking it off because he wanted to sleep with other women, and to get back at him was sleeping with 2 other guys. I made it fit to copy her diary and mail it to the states where I can use it as cause for divorce.

There is no way that I am going to go back to her because I just hurt thinking about it, not mention reading it, and seeing pictures on her camera, which I copied as well, with her self all over these guys.

I prayed this whole time she was gone which is close to 8 months now ever since she stopped communicating with me. All I have done since then was keep reading my bible and praying over my daughter to get her out of that situation.

-Ed

If its time to leave the marriage, you definitely seem to have just cause.