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[FONT=&quot]I have only been a Christian for a short while and I am still grasping the idea of prayer. Not so much how to pray, but what and how to pray for. Right now I am only praying the Lord's Prayer and any concerns which are on my mind.

However people in my church, which is an evangelical one, pray quite a lot and are committed prayer warriors. There an is an expectation for members to pray for everything and everyone.

Some advice would be much appreciated.
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To get you started, here are some helpful resources regarding prayer:
P r a y e r
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Abbreviated Prayerbook
The Message of the Lord's Prayer

May God continue to guide you to Himself.
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[FONT=&quot]I have only been a Christian for a short while and I am still grasping the idea of prayer. Not so much how to pray, but what and how to pray for. Right now I am only praying the Lord's Prayer and any concerns which are on my mind. [/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]However people in my church, which is an evangelical one, pray quite a lot and are committed prayer warriors. There an is an expectation for members to pray for everything and everyone.[/FONT]

[FONT=&quot]Some advice would be much appreciated.[/FONT]

Praying -begins with your true heart and a bond with God. Focusing on God and making Your Lord all of your focus and the prayer will come out.
Stay Blessed!

All The Glory Belongs To God Forever!
 
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Exactly HOW should we pray?
Sometimes it's hard to express ourelves in words. However, if you feel like that, this should not keep you from speaking to God in prayer. We can be sure that he knows our needs and will understand what we want to say. (Matthew 6:8)
Think about it: Which expression do you most appreciate from a child—his
simple, sincere thanks - or the special words someone told him to say? Our Father in heaven likewise appreciates simple, sincere expressions from us. (James 4:6; Luke 18:9-14) No special words or religious language are needed. He will not even listen to those who pray in unusual or high-sounding language to impress others, or who say the same things over and over again in an insincere way.— See Matthew 6:5, 7.

Even when you pray silently (in your head) God can hear. When Nehemiah did, God acted upon his sincere request, and likewise with Hannah. (Nehemiah 2:4-8; 1 Samuel 1:11-13, 19, 20) Nor is a person’s physical position when praying the important thing. You can pray while in any position, at any time and at any place. However, the Bible shows that a position of humility, such as bowing the head or kneeling, is appropriate.
(1 Kings 8:54; Nehemiah 8:6; Daniel 6:10; Mark 11:25; John 11:41) And Jesus indicated that it is also good when personal prayers can be said in a place of privacy, unseen to men.—Matthew 6:6.

Prayers to help others....
Jesus showed by his example the importance of praying in behalf of others. (Luke 22:32; 23:34; John 17:20)
The apostle Paul knew the value of such prayers and often asked others to pray for him.
(1 Thessalonians 5:25; 2 Thessalonians 3:1; Romans 15:30) While in prison he wrote: "I am hoping that through the prayers of you people I shall be set at liberty." (Philemon 22; Ephesians 6:18-20) That Paul was soon afterward released from prison indicates the benefit of the prayers that were said for him.Paul also said helpful prayers in behalf of others. "We always pray for you, that our God may count you worthy of his calling," he wrote. (2 Thessalonians 1:11) And to another congregation he explained: "We pray to God that you may do nothing wrong . . . but that you may be doing what is fine." (2 Corinthians 13:7)

Surely it is good to follow Paul’s example and to make specific requests in behalf of persons whom we love. Indeed, "a righteous man’s supplication [sincere pleading], when it is at work, has much force."
—James 5:13-16.

What are proper matters about which to pray?
Phil. 4:6: “Do not be anxious over anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication along with thanksgiving let your petitions be made known to God.”

The Bible show that we can pray for ALL THAT WE NEED, no matter what. As long as it is in harmony with God's will..... If a person for example pray for something that's not good for himself, then God will not approve it. Sometimes he answer that prayer in a way that we didn't expect.....

Furthermore, the allmighty God can easely see what we need, before we ask for it. But he want us to pray, with a humble heart and a humble attitude, and with strong faith.

STRONG FAITH is necessary in order to get what we pray for.
James 1: 6,7,8 says: But let him keep on asking in faith, not doubting at all, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven by the wind
and blown about. 7. In fact, let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from God; 8. he is an indecisive man, unsteady in all his ways.
 
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[FONT=&quot]I have only been a Christian for a short while and I am still grasping the idea of prayer. Not so much how to pray, but what and how to pray for. Right now I am only praying the Lord's Prayer and any concerns which are on my mind.

However people in my church, which is an evangelical one, pray quite a lot and are committed prayer warriors. There an is an expectation for members to pray for everything and everyone.

Some advice would be much appreciated.
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It is important to pray much and we are encouraged to bring everything to God:

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Phil 4:6-7 (ESV)

16 Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.[2]
James 5:16 (ESV)

Really it's an individualized thing, a personal part of your personal relationship with God. People pray in different ways and for different reasons. Ideally I think God wants us to pray for all things, though. Not just requests, but also praises and thanks. Not just thanks but also problems and talking about issues and direction. Also, of course confession and asking forgiveness of sins. I try to include all of the three in my daily prayers, as well as healing and requests for others.

You mentioned your church and how much they pray. Is there something that you feel different about than what you have observed them doing or speaking of?
 
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[FONT=&quot]I have only been a Christian for a short while and I am still grasping the idea of prayer. Not so much how to pray, but what and how to pray for. Right now I am only praying the Lord's Prayer and any concerns which are on my mind. [/FONT]
That's about what I do too :)

Any time something's bugging me, I just ask God about it. Sometimes in my head, sometimes out loud. He knows either way.

"Hey God, I'm kinda worried about this test coming up."
"am I doing the right thing right now?"
"I need some help with this"
"thank you for the close parking spot :D"

throughout the day, I make little prayers like that. nothing major, just tellin Him what's on my mind.
 
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Praying -begins with your true heart and a bond with God. Focusing on God and making Your Lord all of your focus and the prayer will come out.
All The Glory Belongs To God Forever!
Usually, thanks God for what we have owned is a good way to start...
 
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Prayer takes on many forms - everyone has their own way of praying - there is not right or wrong way to pray.

Something from the heart will bring you closer to God than reciting prayers from books, or written down prayers.

Just stay in a prayful mood all day long - you see something about your life that is doing good - just say 'thank you Jesus' - you see someone in need - just say a prayer for them.

Jesus is by your side at all times - the HOly Spirit will guide you - you do what will bring you closer to God - and when people ask you about praying, just tell them you are in prayer all day long.

Just talk to Jesus, tell Him when you are confused, when you need help, when you are thankful. A good Warrior is not one that musters up the courage to have one good fight - but fights all the time.

We are not graded on how long we pray - what comes from your heart is very precious to God.
 
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Prayer takes on many forms - everyone has their own way of praying - there is not right or wrong way to pray.

Something from the heart will bring you closer to God than reciting prayers from books, or written down prayers.

Just stay in a prayful mood all day long - you see something about your life that is doing good - just say 'thank you Jesus' - you see someone in need - just say a prayer for them.

Jesus is by your side at all times - the HOly Spirit will guide you - you do what will bring you closer to God - and when people ask you about praying, just tell them you are in prayer all day long.

Just talk to Jesus, tell Him when you are confused, when you need help, when you are thankful. A good Warrior is not one that musters up the courage to have one good fight - but fights all the time.

We are not graded on how long we pray - what comes from your heart is very precious to God.
:amen::amen::amen::amen::amen::amen::amen::amen::amen::amen::amen::amen::amen:

Great post.
 
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