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Prayers for Heartbreak & Depression

HopefulHepatica

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Please pray for me, I have been dealing with onset sadness and depression over my heartbreak. I think the breakup has sunken in to the point that I realize he's not coming back. I've been crying a lot more than usual and finding a hard time getting out of bed in the morning and keeping busy. I have also come under attack with negative thoughts and feelings, such as 'You weren't pretty enough' and 'He never loved you' and 'Nobody will ever love you again' and just very hurtful things. I'm feeling very vulnerable right now, and having difficulty moving on. I just keep seeing him so vividly, when I close my eyes, and he's been in my dreams for a few nights now. It's just tormenting me at this point, and I feel so lost and broken, abandoned by someone I never saw myself losing & had become such a big part of my life. It's hard moving into a life without him, still, even though it's almost been a month.
 

faroukfarouk

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Please pray for me, I have been dealing with onset sadness and depression over my heartbreak. I think the breakup has sunken in to the point that I realize he's not coming back. I've been crying a lot more than usual and finding a hard time getting out of bed in the morning and keeping busy. I have also come under attack with negative thoughts and feelings, such as 'You weren't pretty enough' and 'He never loved you' and 'Nobody will ever love you again' and just very hurtful things. I'm feeling very vulnerable right now, and having difficulty moving on. I just keep seeing him so vividly, when I close my eyes, and he's been in my dreams for a few nights now. It's just tormenting me at this point, and I feel so lost and broken, abandoned by someone I never saw myself losing & had become such a big part of my life. It's hard moving into a life without him, still, even though it's almost been a month.
Hi; good to bear Hebrews 12.2 in mind...

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God is good

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Please pray for me, I have been dealing with onset sadness and depression over my heartbreak. I think the breakup has sunken in to the point that I realize he's not coming back. I've been crying a lot more than usual and finding a hard time getting out of bed in the morning and keeping busy. I have also come under attack with negative thoughts and feelings, such as 'You weren't pretty enough' and 'He never loved you' and 'Nobody will ever love you again' and just very hurtful things. I'm feeling very vulnerable right now, and having difficulty moving on. I just keep seeing him so vividly, when I close my eyes, and he's been in my dreams for a few nights now. It's just tormenting me at this point, and I feel so lost and broken, abandoned by someone I never saw myself losing & had become such a big part of my life. It's hard moving into a life without him, still, even though it's almost been a month.
Just remember that Jesus loves you very much and He will always be with us. Jesus can help you with everything, if it's God's will for you to have your boyfriend back it will happen, Jesus loves you and may God bless you and Jesus is Lord.
 
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mukk_in

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Please pray for me, I have been dealing with onset sadness and depression over my heartbreak. I think the breakup has sunken in to the point that I realize he's not coming back. I've been crying a lot more than usual and finding a hard time getting out of bed in the morning and keeping busy. I have also come under attack with negative thoughts and feelings, such as 'You weren't pretty enough' and 'He never loved you' and 'Nobody will ever love you again' and just very hurtful things. I'm feeling very vulnerable right now, and having difficulty moving on. I just keep seeing him so vividly, when I close my eyes, and he's been in my dreams for a few nights now. It's just tormenting me at this point, and I feel so lost and broken, abandoned by someone I never saw myself losing & had become such a big part of my life. It's hard moving into a life without him, still, even though it's almost been a month.
I'm so sorry to hear that. For starters, if I may, you seem quite attractive from your avatar. If it's God's will, you shouldn't have any trouble finding a godly man. In the meantime may I suggest that you ponder on this verse, "For I'm with you, till the end of time." I'll be praying for you. Peace in Christ :).
 
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Emli

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Please pray for me, I have been dealing with onset sadness and depression over my heartbreak. I think the breakup has sunken in to the point that I realize he's not coming back. I've been crying a lot more than usual and finding a hard time getting out of bed in the morning and keeping busy. I have also come under attack with negative thoughts and feelings, such as 'You weren't pretty enough' and 'He never loved you' and 'Nobody will ever love you again' and just very hurtful things. I'm feeling very vulnerable right now, and having difficulty moving on. I just keep seeing him so vividly, when I close my eyes, and he's been in my dreams for a few nights now. It's just tormenting me at this point, and I feel so lost and broken, abandoned by someone I never saw myself losing & had become such a big part of my life. It's hard moving into a life without him, still, even though it's almost been a month.
It will take some time, but your heart will heal from this. Just keep mourning, casting all of your anxiety on God, knowing that He loves you and is with you. Don't condemn yourself, because you are beautiful and God makes no mistakes. Our Father may have someone much better waiting for you in the future, but for now, just let your heart rest in His hands, because He will never leave you, and He is close to the brokenhearted.

Praying for you. :prayer::heartpulse:
 
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Greg Merrill

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Philippians 3:13,14; Psalms 30:11; Matthew 6:33; Mark 12:30 all come to mind, as does Ecclesiastes 5:3 and Isaiah 40:29. Take control of your mind (Philippians 4:6-8) and choose to quit "constantly" looking at the past, and observe what is good in the present, and what is coming in the future. Run the race...looking forward, not back. Learn and appreciate the past, but live in the present. Don't believe the lies that there isn't something better in the future for you. Don't keep up a pity party. Get up strong and hold up your head and know you are still God's child, and He has great things for you, and to accomplish through you. Father, I pray HopefulHepatic will remember who she is, and refocus in power and might, and enjoy her life that You have for her, and grow in strength from this experience. May she be a help to others in the future, 2 Corinthians 1:3-4. Amen.
 
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