Two months ago life as I knew it fell apart. And the man I thought I would be with forever turned into a monster. He has been going on dating websites and meeting girl after girl. He has a porn problem, and it has gotten so bad that he is paying for it. He is treating me like dirt, yelling at me, cussing at me, threatning me, making my life hell. We have one child together but I also have a child from a previous relationship, and he use to be so great with her, and now he yells at her constantly, and just acts like he hates her, he wants nothing to do with her. We are currently living under the same roof, and its hell!! I am in the process of waiting for the bank to approve my loan for a house my closing should be in November but the morgage company. And I am so worried about my house falling through, I am trying to save up money for a down payment, which is hard with two kids. I feel like i never smile anymore, I cant eat, sleep nothing. My daughter is handling things very maturely, and she doesnt seem to hurt by his behavior. But I am miserable. He never cussed at me, or yelled at me, he was good to me and the kids and he just changed. I really believe that his porn addiction took over his life and is now in control of his whole mind. Please continue to pray for us, and that we get this house and that I am financially able to make it on my own. I do not know how to handle any of this I am so lost. I do not know if it is better than he have no contact with us or if things will get better once im moved out. He is good to his son, and I would never keep him from seeing him. But his behavior is scaring me. I know God will provide for me, but its scary because I can not fail, I have to succeed for me and my kids!! Keep me and my kid in your prayers. Thanks for your time. And please pray for my ex too, he needs God in his life right now too, even though he is treating us so badly, I pray there is hope for him!!
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Prayers for happiness!!
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Stephanie7
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Praying that things will work out for you and asking God that He will see to it that you can enjoy some happiness, In Jesus Name, Amen
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Praying for your direction, protection, strength, hope, peace, and provisions ~ God bless you 
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By the blood of Jesus, I lift you and your family up to the LORD, I am praying for your happiness and your living situation and for GOD to give you the peace and comfort that you are seeking. I stand by Matthew 16:19, in Jesus name I pray, Amen and Amen. God bless.
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Praying for guidance, wisdom, protection, strength, happiness and peace in the name of Jesus Christ. Thank You Lord!
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