- Feb 14, 2002
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I'm sure many of you remember reading my posts from a few months ago, regarding the guy I was interested in (and who used to be my friend), that ended up dating a very mean girl (who also used to be my friend). Well, today I think I had some sort of a breakthrough in that situation: I forgave the girl for all the mean things she did to me and to our other friends last summer. It was tough, believe me, but I wrote her a letter (I don't intend to send it) telling her that I need to make peace with her and that I need to truly forgive her in order to move on. I felt much better after writing it, and it was a huge step in the right direction. Up until today, I don't think I really wanted to forgive this girl.
Now, I'm just trying to stick with this, no matter what happens. I'm scared of having this newfound resolve tested in some way, but if that happens, I have no choice but to get through it somehow. I just wish I didn't have to be hurt anymore...
Anyway, my whole point in posting this was to thank God for His goodness in helping me forgive this girl. I couldn't have done it without Him!!
Now, I'm just trying to stick with this, no matter what happens. I'm scared of having this newfound resolve tested in some way, but if that happens, I have no choice but to get through it somehow. I just wish I didn't have to be hurt anymore...
Anyway, my whole point in posting this was to thank God for His goodness in helping me forgive this girl. I couldn't have done it without Him!!

