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*possible trigger* it will never stop

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i can't stop this never ending curse. i have anorexia and bulimia. i am 16 and have been to 5 ed clinics (rtc's) in about a yr. the thoughts keep coming back into my head. my entire world revolves around my weight. if it's not one thing it's another. ed or s/h both go hand in hand with my thoughts. i don't know what's going to happen. i have health problems, possible liver damage (still awaiting reply), and am in a down ward slope and cant find my way back up. why can't i just be healthy and look the way i want to. if i gain a lbs, i freak out. i don;t know what to do! i don't have enough insurance to cover another psychologist... i just want to be healthy... is that too much to ask?
 

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Have a look at your past behaviour with food when bulimic.. what foods trigger you? There is some research going on about sugar and fats addictions in society ( a secret addiction). maybe you could avoid the trigger foods if they aren't a nessesity to maintain health. and keep in mind that weight naturally goes up and fluxes a few pounds when we eat: try not to let a few healthy pounds panic you.

Try to get into the habit of eating at mealtimes, being mindful of healthy portions.. have some planned snack foods for when you just must eat.. like a piece of fruit and a large glass of water, or a small lebonese cumcumber with a glass of water. (a nutrisionist would have great ideas).

I am becoming interested in natural health as I get older, with an emphasis on the healing properties of certain foods.

A little natter, Jenafer
 
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how about focusing on one goal at a time? for instance;
focus on a time table to eat breakfast. like for me it's by 11:00 am. - i keep fruits, yougart, twelve grain bread, hot cereal and juice. i pick two things, and force myself to eat. as soon as i'm done, i have an activity to do (walking, shopping, therephy, school, whatever works)... to help me with the first 15 mins of panic that i ate. then the next 15 mins. so on. before i know it, my brain isn't panicking but feel nurished. also, because i feel so good; i avoid binge behavior and purge sensations.

one thing that really helps alot of people is ED group therephy. it's free or donations excepted. it's good to have somewhere to go; or someone to phone, that understands; that you can't keep secrets from (they know all the tricks) and a plan that helps support you where ever you are.

http://www.eatingdisordersanonymous.org/
 
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