CynthiaSpeaks
Big Bad Bart... He's my dream!
- Dec 2, 2004
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I see huge red flags here. A timid mother, second husband with adolescent boy, showers and spankings. Quite the recipe...
Now I'm not sure it is a case for the authorities at this point. They would remove the boy and put him in foster care. That is no better than where he's at. And if the stepdad is innocent, the situation is even worse.
Is there someone in your family that can step up for the mother? Her Dad, perhaps, or a grandfather? A face to face, man to man talk may be all that is needed. A good stiff talking to about what is appropriate and what is not, and a "If you ever even think of hurting this boy I'll *!$3&! you good" may do the trick.
I would like to think he is an ignorant first time father who thinks these are good parentinig skills. But definitely keep your eyes wide open. And yes, a 12 year old going thru puberty definitely needs privacy. Good grief, I can't imagine how self concious he will be, if not already. Poor kid.
Now I'm not sure it is a case for the authorities at this point. They would remove the boy and put him in foster care. That is no better than where he's at. And if the stepdad is innocent, the situation is even worse.
Is there someone in your family that can step up for the mother? Her Dad, perhaps, or a grandfather? A face to face, man to man talk may be all that is needed. A good stiff talking to about what is appropriate and what is not, and a "If you ever even think of hurting this boy I'll *!$3&! you good" may do the trick.
I would like to think he is an ignorant first time father who thinks these are good parentinig skills. But definitely keep your eyes wide open. And yes, a 12 year old going thru puberty definitely needs privacy. Good grief, I can't imagine how self concious he will be, if not already. Poor kid.
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