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porn and touching yourself quit for a month

OK my view is that sex is a gift from god to be shared with your married wife or husband and touching yourself is abusing that gift from god. Also, on the physical effect, it is very addictive which of course is not good. And of course it does change the way we see the other gender (from a guys point of view.....idk about a girl). I know that when I was doing it alot, it was all I could think of when I spoke to a girl...which of course is lust, which is a sin
 
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Good luck! I hope it's going well for you. :) I'm not personally against masturbation so I can't give testimony to the effectiveness of these tricks, but I've heard that keeping yourself busy and spending time around other people is a big help.

Remember that if you slip up, you can always keep trying. Focus on positive reinforcement and why you're doing this.
 
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Thread has been cleaned and has been moved to Serious Stuff where it is more appropriate. The Teens Common Area is for "lite chit chat" only. In addition, the teen forums are for those age 12-19 ONLY. If you are above that age your post has been deleted.
 
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