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Poor Baby!

andiesmama

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Ok, my first experience with "real blood" happened with my 2 year old daughter (Andie) the other day! She was running to get into bed to take her nap & fell flat on her face!! Of course, she started crying & I assumed it was no big deal, I'm ashamed to say I was even a little annoyed because this was pushing back her naptime & "what an inconvenience". :sigh:

Anyways, I carried her to the kitchen to get ice, her face buried in my neck & sobbing the whole way. Anyways, we get to the kitchen, she lifts her head & lo&behold! My shirt on that side was SOAKED in blood, and it was pouring from her mouth! :cry: :eek: Of course I freaked out, and it took forever to get it to stop, she wouldn't eat any ice & the only thing I could think to do was get her to suck on a rag soaked in cold water. Well, we finally got her to suck on a popsicle, which made it all better. (*whew*) I dosed her with some baby motrin & after her nap she was back to normal, there wasn't even any swelling. I guess she bit her tongue, she didn't really eat that much the rest of the day/night.

The blood & pain she was going through was awful, but I guess the thing that makes me feel the most guilty is my very initial reaction of annoyance when she first fell & started crying...isn't a mother's instinct supposed to be just the opposite, one of compassion? :( Of course, I felt horrible that she was upset, and when I realized how bad it was I felt even worse! I know I should just let it go, but I just had to share...thanks for listening!
 

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yep I wouldnt beat myself up over it. Things like this happen. you had no idea that she was bleeding. Kids fall and cry all the time. The good thing is that she is fine and happy. she dont even know that you were annoyed.
its stressfull when its nap time and they fight it and things happen and they dont get the nap they need.
feel better mommy.
-Jillian
 
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