I also checked out your past posts - and I'm a little curious about the whole timing thing.
Looks like you got married in Feb of 2015. Within 2-3 months you were talking about how you couldn't conceive and were looking to adopt.
Forgive my asking - but how did you learn that you weren't able to conceive? The timing is just bizarre to me. Most people usually try for a while, fail, then contemplate getting tested, mull around for a bit and then finally get the testing done. Then whenever the test results come back, they then mull around the thought of adoption, etc.
Like, my wife and I had a hard time conceiving. We started trying in 2006, and didn't end up conceiving until 2010. We probably didn't start getting tested until after 2 years of not being successful - lol (so around 2008). By your timing though, it's like you tried two cycles, and then immediately were talking adoption.
That's interesting to me...and it makes me wonder...how did you come to the infertility conclusion?
And clearly - if the hubby was saying you ought go out and have sex with other dudes - was the conclusion from the docs that he had a low sperm count or something? He's the infertile one?
Either way - you've got a wacky situation and you ought get out of it.