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Rhye

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maybe you can fill me in on what he meant because i'm a little concerned how he thinks mulling something over in his head is going to get anything done. i don't know exactly what he meant. so i can't say that's it though.

or should i leave it alone?

just leave it alone. please. i have no energy to explain. i just say thank you.
 
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I wanted to bump this thread up because many of my friends here have so kindly cared and asked how my dad is doing.

I want to first thank you all for your prayers, and your kind words, and always taking the time to listen.


I don't want to get into detail but, the good news is that my father does not have cancer. Praise the Lord. I don't know if he will go through surgery or not, it is up to him at this point, and us sitting down and having a long discussion about it, but he does not have cancer. Thats what matters to me. I feel as though a huge elephant has been sitting on my chest for the last 6 months, and I can't seem to breath no matter what I do. Last night, I couldn't sleep again. I think I'm losing my health in the process, but I'm getting through it. Sometimes, silently, but its the only way at this point I can bare it. I'm sorry I don't want too or cannot answer all of your questions right now. There are days, that I don't know how too, and days where I just cannot. Thank you for not forcing me too.

Thank you all again, for your prayers and your kindness.
 
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I wanted to bump this thread up because many of my friends here have so kindly cared and asked how my dad is doing.

I want to first thank you all for your prayers, and your kind words, and always taking the time to listen.


I don't want to get into detail but, the good news is that my father does not have cancer. Praise the Lord. I don't know if he will go through surgery or not, it is up to him at this point, and us sitting down and having a long discussion about it, but he does not have cancer. Thats what matters to me. I feel as though a huge elephant has been sitting on my chest for the last 6 months, and I can't seem to breath no matter what I do. Last night, I couldn't sleep again. I think I'm losing my health in the process, but I'm getting through it. Sometimes, silently, but its the only way at this point I can bare it. I'm sorry I don't want too or cannot answer all of your questions right now. There are days, that I don't know how too, and days where I just cannot. Thank you for not forcing me too.

Thank you all again, for your prayers and your kindness.


praise God that he does not have cancer! sweetie I really hate to see you hurting like this and you know that if you want to talk you can come to me any time :hug:

still praying for your dad and your family :)
 
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Praying, he sounds like such a sweet guy. :)
:hug: for you

One of the best, let me tell you one of the BEST!

Thank you, so much.

AFJ-Thank you.


I say this time and time again, I don't think I could have gone through without prayers. I know that you are all so far from me, but I feel so close to all of you when you do this. Though, I get scared, its not the same it used to be. I don't know what is going to happen, but I need to prepare myself and become stronger. I always ask for strength. I have no idea if I have it or not, but I just need it everyday.

And I need to stop being so tired all the time and get this thesis done. He didn't work all his life for me to throw it away feeling sad.
 
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One of the best, let me tell you one of the BEST!

And I need to stop being so tired all the time and get this thesis done. He didn't work all his life for me to throw it away feeling sad.

Try not to be so hard on yourself. This sort of thing can take the wind out of you, no matter how hard you try to fight it.
I'm glad cancer was ruled out, I hope he is ok.
:hug:
 
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