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Marie

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Thank you jjoel; I'm thinking that that is God's plan for me through this divorce. I need to be living out 1 Timothy 4:12, in every single way possible.

Thank you Paulie :)

Ya know, it's not like they were fighting or angry at each other or anything, it just came out of the blue. This will be both of their second divorce, and the second one I will have gone through as well. I don't know how this will turn out. I am still thinking it all through. I have been praying, oh man, have I been praying...They are both strong Christians, and they know that divorce is wrong, and even called it "intentional sin" yesterday when they talked about it with me. My dad may be kicked out of the church (at least the ministries that he is serving in), which is really hard. My parents said that they know that God will not bless what they are going to do, but they are doing it anyway. One promise that I am holding close to my heart right now is that "In all things, God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." I do believe I am qualified under that verse, so I know that He can do good things in me and through me. Ugh, I'm just feeling so depressed right now. Heh, my mom went to go and get my sister from school, and on the way home, she picked me up a frappucino to try to get me some energy :). It is hard, but we all still have a sense of humor, and everybody is getting along fine. My sister doesn't know yet, and neither does any other members of the family. I know, my mom knows, and my dad knows. I'm not supposed to tell my friends or anything, but that's just so it doesn't get out to anybody else and rumor weed it's way around to family. So, I need to vent right now, and I can tell you guys. :) I love you all! :hug: My mom and I are going to look at houses tomorrow...really weird...I've always pictured my parents together. They've been together for about 11 years now. I'm still shocked.
 
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I know this is hard for you, but I just wanted to commend you on the attitude you have about all of it. Congrats on keeping God in sight, even with everything that's going on! I'll definitely pray for you and your family. :) :pray:
 
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