hello i am new to this but i need some help and advice. my ex husband and i have been seperated since jan of 02. he has custody of our DD and DS. we have both remarried and i now have a family of my own which includes my DSD. My DD has cerebal palsy and my x has taken me to court (for the last 5 yrs) to try to get me to have no visits with my kids. The bad part is my DS is now 7 yrs old and wants to know why my DSD and my DS s are able to live with mommy and stay the night. My x keeps telling me that 1) i am not stable enough to have all my kids in one place for overnight visits........Funny thing is i had all 5 of my kids for overnight visits up until 3 yrs ago. When i ask my x to drop my supervised visits and let me see my kids overnight he tells me only if you pay 400 a month in child support (I am a stay at home mom that gets child support for my 5 yr old DS neither me or my DH are working at this time) I then tell him that i am unable to do that at this time and he says then no u have to only get them 3 sundays a month for 4 hours (from pick up to drop off) and 2) my x tells me that he and his wife are raising the kids to be a certin religion and by no means am i allowed to take them to chruch with me. The way i feel is it is not our choice what beliefs we raise our kids. I feel they should be aware of where both my husband and i take them as well as their father and his wife take them and then when the time comes i feel it is the childs choice on where and what chruch they want to go to ........... any way i filed papers on monday to get more time with my kids and to have the supervised visits dropped. i need advice not only to tell my DS but to tell the judge on why i feel my kids are better having overnight visits with me my husband and our kids. not to mention what should i tell my son when he begs to go to chruch with us and i am not allowed to take him or his father will stop all visits that i do have..................................SOMEONE ANYONE PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!
I LOVE MY KIDS AND THIS IS NOT HEALTHY FOR THEM NOT TO MENTION MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DH
I LOVE MY KIDS AND THIS IS NOT HEALTHY FOR THEM NOT TO MENTION MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DH
