How does God see our emotions on people that we dislike? Do we just tolerate them? I know in God's eye we have to love everyone, but do you deal with people you just can't stand. I've prayed about this, but I just can't see to get pass this. any opinions.
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How does God see our emotions on people that we dislike? Do we just tolerate them? I know in God's eye we have to love everyone, but how do you deal with people you just can't stand. I've prayed about this, but I just can't see to get pass this. I know God will judge us on everything.. sometimes I think his rules are so hard to follow... i sometimes feel like I'm not going to be able to get into heaven and everything that he wants us to do...its impossible to be to his image. any takes on this?
How does God see our emotions on people that we dislike? Do we just tolerate them? I know in God's eye we have to love everyone, but how do you deal with people you just can't stand. I've prayed about this, but I just can't see to get pass this. I know God will judge us on everything.. sometimes I think his rules are so hard to follow... i sometimes feel like I'm not going to be able to get into heaven and everything that he wants us to do...its impossible to be to his image. any takes on this?
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It is difficult to see Christ in other people sometimes. We are to pray for those we have issues with in some way.
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I think the thing to do is ask yourself, "Would this be transgressing LOVE". So if you see this person out in public, and they see you, but you don't say hello, does this transgress love? If so, run instead towards love, because it will free you.
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Jesus said to love our enemies-Matthew 5:44. This doesn't mean you have to agree with them but respect them as human beings. Pray for their salvation-your prayer maybe the only hope they have.
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ChildOfGod97
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"Dislike" is pretty general of a word. Some people do things God hates, but He loves them, just not the death of sin they are devoted to. They are dead, asleep.
What is important is to keep the words of Christ in your heart and try and apply them.
Those in sin who do hateful things are no worse then you. They need guidance, knowledge. 'My people die from lack of knowledge'. Does that not sound true for anyone, anywhere?
What is true knowledge, the Good News of Jesus. That knowledge if believed gives the Spirit, and the Spirit guides one into all truth. In Jesus one has everlasting life.
That we express by our words and deeds through the Spirit. The very same Spirit of Jesus who lived and walked, died and resurrected, some two thousand years ago is within us.
You won't always have easy answers, but they are there if you try. Was Jesus always cookie cutter nice? No. But did He always do what was best for people? Yes. And you can see His heart when, on the cross, He said, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do".
The more one tries to follow Jesus and find Jesus, the more the Spirit can give them life within and so give them love. In love, there is no offense. We see beyond people's faults.
That is something one has to actively try and do.
It is a matter of life or death.
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It's a big difference in disliking somebodys BEHAVIOR or hating them (as a person), which means that we don't care what happen to them and even wish that something bad would happen to them. Disliking is normal and we do not have to accept the things we don't like, yet we should try to accept the PERSON and wanting the best for him anyway. According to the Bible, we should avoid close relationship with those who behave AGAINST biblical principles because beeing too close friends could affect our own behaviors and lead to sin....(It's easy to become "infected" when we chose bad company) If it's not possible to avoid the person, we should pray for strenght and also for the other person. Even though we don't like the behaviour or opinions it
is neccesary to love. Love is to really want the best for others and not judging them, even they do wrong. Judging only belongs to GOD who's the only one who can see the "heart-condition" to each and every one. If you don't hate the other person, then you don't have to worry because you dislike his behaviour.
is neccesary to love. Love is to really want the best for others and not judging them, even they do wrong. Judging only belongs to GOD who's the only one who can see the "heart-condition" to each and every one. If you don't hate the other person, then you don't have to worry because you dislike his behaviour.
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toolite
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There are different reasons why we may dislike people. Is the person a coworker?
You are doing the right thing by giving it to God and allowing him to fix it because it's something you can not fix yourself. And I am sure the enemy enjoys using this person because the enemy knows if bothers you and nothing makes the enemy happier than to see God's child in distress. If you really want it to stop and sometimes we hate to do it but, put love on it. It will stop all of it completely because the enemy would have to leave the situation. But, if you can not do that and sometimes we can't just leave it to God's hands and do not put your hands on it at all. He will resolve it. Stay BlesseD!
All the Glory Belongs To God ForeveR!
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I think that I've developed feelings of hate toward a couple individuals and I hate their behavior... i know these words are very strong, sometimes i feel bad because I want something bad to happen to them so , they can just go away. I feel so calm when Im not around a certain person, and I just want to distant myself from these people because all they do is cause drama and hurt. So, I will leave it to God for HIM to take care of the situation. I've pray for forgiveness to the almighty and to take this horrible thoughts from me because this is not me and I really feel different when im around them. There is always a hostile environment with them and I just get mad all over when I think of them. I just don't want this to affect my relationship with God. I'm trying to become better everyday, i pray and talk to God about different things and for him to change their ways. Thanks for the comments
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Often we don't get along with someone because we don't see the whole picture. Therefore, we may end up disliking a person based on our own thoughts and opinions of how that person should act in relation to who we are and how we perceive life. But as soon as we get to know that person a little better and the circumstances and people who have shaped their lives, we will also have a better understanding and appreciation of why they act or react the way they do.
Despite your probably not wanting to, if you can begin to build a friendship or relationship with this person in a positive and loving way - then your view of this person will most likely begin to also change in a positive way. You may soon find your dislike for this person turning into compassion and genuine care.
Think about the woman Jesus met at the well. Many might have treated her badly because of some of the bad choices she made in life. But Jesus, who knew all about her and the things that lead her to the point where he met her in life, was merciful and compassionate. He focused more on what she could become for God and not what she was at the moment. As a result, she believed and encouraged others to do the same.
God Bless.
Despite your probably not wanting to, if you can begin to build a friendship or relationship with this person in a positive and loving way - then your view of this person will most likely begin to also change in a positive way. You may soon find your dislike for this person turning into compassion and genuine care.
Think about the woman Jesus met at the well. Many might have treated her badly because of some of the bad choices she made in life. But Jesus, who knew all about her and the things that lead her to the point where he met her in life, was merciful and compassionate. He focused more on what she could become for God and not what she was at the moment. As a result, she believed and encouraged others to do the same.
God Bless.
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As a case in point, although I have not experienced hating someone to the point of wishing evil on them, I have been in two situations where I wished I did not have to deal with particular persons.
In each situation, God reminded me that I am no better than they are and in need of his saving grace as much as they were. I was also convicted to get to know them better - who they were and their life experiences. Both times I embarked upon this task grudgingly, but in the end the outcome was always the same. I got to know them better, formed friendships and ultimately was better able to witness to them about the love of Christ. All praise be to God!
And believe it or not, I just found myself in another similar situation just last weekend. Yes, I initially became frustrated, but God's track record encourages me to follow through with doing things his way in order to win the victory and perhaps ultimately this other person's very soul for Christ.
Be encouraged and continue to humbly seek God for guidance in this matter. He will lead you.
In each situation, God reminded me that I am no better than they are and in need of his saving grace as much as they were. I was also convicted to get to know them better - who they were and their life experiences. Both times I embarked upon this task grudgingly, but in the end the outcome was always the same. I got to know them better, formed friendships and ultimately was better able to witness to them about the love of Christ. All praise be to God!
And believe it or not, I just found myself in another similar situation just last weekend. Yes, I initially became frustrated, but God's track record encourages me to follow through with doing things his way in order to win the victory and perhaps ultimately this other person's very soul for Christ.
Be encouraged and continue to humbly seek God for guidance in this matter. He will lead you.
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