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[Chihiro99]

A few of you may remember a post I posted a while ago about this guy that I liked, then found his facebook, and it said he was in a relationship. Well, I still yet have asked him if he has a girlfriend, but every time we see each other he'll call me over to talk or I'll catch him looking at me during class. First off, I really like him, but if he has a girlfriend I need to know. I would have asked him, but it seems to soon. Second, I don't even know if he likes me or if he's just being nice. So, could someone give me some sort of advice? I'm so confused. Also, could you guys pray for God's will to be done?

 

[kelco]

Prayers. You need to know if he has a girlfriend or not so you need to ask. Just drop it into the conversation causually. Best of luck.

 

[Linus]

Praying for you beloved.

 

[Kristin06]

I would just tell you to somehow slip it in a normal conversation...you need to know, so that you can decide what you need to do!! I will defintely be praying for both you and him...

 

[JPPT1974]

Praying that the will of God will be done for you.
Just follow Him and let Him know He wants nothing but the best for you!

 

[Evie1980]

Just ask him casually as if it was part of your every day conversation if he says yes and ask about her and what she is like (you may find out that you could get along and have a new friend). If not then well you can go from there where ever you want to. Asking casually is the best way and if you keep the conversation going after the question is asked then he realise that you are still his friend no matter what (which is an important thing). He may not have told you because he thinks if he does you will no longer be interested in him at all and would rather keep you as friend then tell you the truth.
May God bless

 

[RED that's ME]

Communication is important in any relationship. Even if he has a girlfriend and a nice guy does that mean you don't won't him as a friend just a boyfriend? Talk with him in general conversation and get to know him. Too many people try to rush a relationship with the other gender. Good things takes time to build, like friendships/relationships.

 

[JourneyRain]

I know its scary and intimidating to ask him but you either need to ask him or ask a friend of a friend. Because if you don't, it will continue to eat at you until you know. Remember nothing ventured nothing gained.

 

[septemberskies]

Just ask him casually as if it was part of your every day conversation if he says yes and ask about her and what she is like (you may find out that you could get along and have a new friend). If not then well you can go from there where ever you want to. Asking casually is the best way and if you keep the conversation going after the question is asked then he realise that you are still his friend no matter what (which is an important thing). He may not have told you because he thinks if he does you will no longer be interested in him at all and would rather keep you as friend then tell you the truth.
May God bless

I agree.

don't be nervous, just ask and see.

 

[christdriven]

It sounds like you dont know this guy very well. I would say just leave it in Gods hands. If the guy has a girlfriend when you get to know him better and talk more it will probably come up in general conversation. If not, than just let it go. If its supposed to happen between you than God will control that, you dont need to. So sit back, surrender it to God (I know this isnt easy) and let God work his will in your life. Even if this guy doesnt have a girlfriend and is interested in you, if you dont know him that well, what would you do, go out with him right away. Start to love him and see him as a brother in Christ, not a guy that is a potential hubby. When we start to see the guys in our lives as brothers in Christ, wanting to get to know them as friends than I believe God can speak all that much more clearly into our hearts about who he has in mind for us. Cause remember, we arent picking our husband, God is. Seek him and ask him for his will, the answer may not come right away but thats when trust, paitence and faith come into play!
Im praying for you!

 

[Willseeker]

Have you read "He's just not that into you"? Basically there are different ways to approach this situation with the information that you have at this moment. Unfortunately men and woman are made the way they are, and that is that men are the natural persuers. So, if he doesn't have a gf, it's his responsibility to bring it under your attention if he's interested in you.

The other thing is that God will bring your right partner to you at the right time, all you can do is to have faith and be patient. I know it's hard at times, but wait it out and see what happens with this gentleman...

 

[lunalinda]

As others have said, I say to ask casually. Just "sneak" it into the conversation or something, as if it's not even the focal point of your conversation. Something like, "If you had a girlfriend, then such and such and such." Hopefully, he'd react with a "Well, I HAVE girlfriend, so blah blah blah." Just kinda get him to admit it without directly asking him, if you can manage. It'll happen in general conversation eventually, but you can always "lure" it out of him. Or maybe say something like, "Okay, you have a girlfriend, right? Or no? Yes, you do? Okay, let's say your girlfriend blah blah blah." I hope I'm not being confusing, but do you kinda see what I'm getting at? If you do, then yay, cuz I think I might have confused MYSELF there.

But yeah, just pray about it. And best wishes to ya.

 

[JPPT1974]

Communication is important in any relationship. Even if he has a girlfriend and a nice guy does that mean you don't won't him as a friend just a boyfriend? Talk with him in general conversation and get to know him. Too many people try to rush a relationship with the other gender. Good things takes time to build, like friendships/relationships.

Communication is indeed important. As well as just having a general conversation. Just be yourself and also do try to act phony. Let time take a hold of you.