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Hindu Cristian pair problem - Is she moved on?
I was in touch with a girl for 6-7 years.I love that girl and she used to love me also.we belong to different religion she cristian and i am hindu.we had decided to get married and promised each other on this before starting our relationship.i used to stay in india but now i am in UK and my girlfriend is in india.on my office work i came to UK for an year.i moved to UK in nov 2012 , starting days she tried to avoid me after when i moved to UK but suddenly in Mar she said forget me and dont talk to me and she also blocked me in all types of communication,but i really love her , i dunno suddenly what happened she said i am moving on with my life and getting married to someone else.she is not talking to me these days and i am totally in trouble what do i do in this case.with below points

1).she is cristian and i am hindu so she left me
2).she was just doing timepass with me for 6 years- (no no one can do that)

please advice/suggest/assist/help me. :(
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Please do not tell me to forget her , Its been so long 6 year , i am not in a situation to forget her at any cost,I am not guessing anything here , i want serious advice , so please help me.
 

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I know you have serious deep feelings for her. If I were you I would move on and date someone else. There is nothing you can do to get her back. You need to accept that it is over. You will grieve naturally but finding someone else will help you to move on like she has. Best wishes for your happiness. Please ask your God to guide you to someone new. Bless you.
 
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