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Ann, I'm sorry for you. I've had a toxic childhood too. Are you in therapy? Does your husband know and support you in your search for wholeness? A small group at church also helps. And finally talking about your struggles on here helps you and helps others who struggle. Not feeling like you are weird or ruined completely, or all alone helps all of us who have dealt with that sort of garbage.

I will add you to my growing prayer list. Wow, it's amazing the different things we find out that people need prayer for, eh?

Where have you been since January to get so many posts?
 
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myanchor,

Thanks for your understanding and prayers.There are two churches I have began attending,one I do not think they have that type of help available.The other one much further away ,I think it does,at least for if a person needs prayer.I sense alot of genuineness and God's love there.I may ask for prayer there sometimes.I have asked for prayer there twice now and they did pray sincerely for me.I am very thankful for that.I tried to get therapy a few times.I really like CF .Many people here who are wonderful.I know I have things to sort out.I know I need prayers.I cry easily.I am reaching out to Jesus ,I know He heals.Yet I know people need each others help as well.
I am on ocd forums quite abit.
Thanks again so much
annrobert
 
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I don't really have anyone, to talk to.I wish there was someone to talk to, that I could trust.I did see a counsellor for a few months at the beginning of the year.She is a very kind and helpful christian.She saw me for a greatly reduced price from from what is normal price which was so kind of her.She really cares for people.I am thinking maybe go see her again.I do feel quite fragile.
I am reaching out to Jesus , I know Jesus came to heal the broken hearted and I know Jesus gives us strength.
thanks
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The one church further away ,they will pray for you and have prayed for me a few times.However they are a very small church and not sure they counsel.I think I may go back to the counsellor I was seeing at the beginning of the year.

It's extra hard facing hurt alone.

That is for sure.

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