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woobadooba

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I know this must be hard for you. Don't be discouraged. Things will work out for the best for you and your children.

This may also prove to be an awakening experience for your husband. Hopefully he will learn something from this, and change his attitude accordingly, to gain your trust again.
 
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Catlover, I do not post on here very often, but I am right now. You did the right thing for you and your children. A prayer for you: Father in heaven, you are the I Am, the Alpha and Omega and you have many other wondrous names. Because of Jesus we can come running to you as I am doing right now for this sister.
Carry her in your awesome arms God, like you did me with my CFS. She does not realize it at this moment, but later on she will know that you carried her through it all. Fill her with you Spirit and protect her with your angels. You promise to supply our needs and you know best what her needs are right now. Supply them as you promise and God, Thank you for hearing and answering this prayer right now.
DRL
 
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Please do not, repeat DO NOT go back. It doesn't get better if you do. It will only enbolden him and strengthen his hold on you.

God's plan is for marriage to be for life, BUT I read nothing in my Bible that says a woman must stay in a marriage at her peril.

Be strong. I have faith the Lord will make a way for you and your children.

Annie
 
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Sophia7

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Please do not, repeat DO NOT go back. It doesn't get better if you do. It will only enbolden him and strengthen his hold on you.

God's plan is for marriage to be for life, BUT I read nothing in my Bible that says a woman must stay in a marriage at her peril.

Be strong. I have faith the Lord will make a way for you and your children.

Annie

I agree, too.
 
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catlover

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Please do not, repeat DO NOT go back. It doesn't get better if you do. It will only enbolden him and strengthen his hold on you.

God's plan is for marriage to be for life, BUT I read nothing in my Bible that says a woman must stay in a marriage at her peril.

Be strong. I have faith the Lord will make a way for you and your children.

Annie



I noticed I went by the other day to get some paper work for employment...thank-God I let law enforcement know what i was going over there for before I went over...he called the police on me...again.

I think he needs prayer.

I am not, not going back to him.

If he were interested in restoring the marriage, he would have offered the house to our children and he would have went to find an apartment.
 
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thecountrydoc

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Hi Catlover,

Please know that you and your children are in my prayers and will also be in the prayers of my family.

You have been given very good advice and I'm glad that you realize the importance of that advice. Please feel free to PM me if you ever just need someone to talk to. As a father of four, grandfather of nine, and great-grandfather of three I can fully appreciate your situation.

May God put His loving arms around you, the Holy Angels protect you, and the Holy Spirit guide and comfort you in this time of need.

Your brother in Christ,
Doc
 
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catlover

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I noticed I went by the other day to get some paper work for employment...thank-God I let law enforcement know what i was going over there for before I went over...he called the police on me...again.

I think he needs prayer.

I am not, not going back to him.

If he were interested in restoring the marriage, he would have offered the house to our children and he would have went to find an apartment.


Another update...part of this makes me angry another part sees God's hand in this...

After that incident listed above...on Monday he went down to the court house and put an "Order of Protection" against me. He wrote a fictional account of what actually happened. Such as I "forced my way into the house..." when he actually let me in the house.

It is a lot to explain but I will explain more later.

He went down to the court house lifted this bogus order and I also had an attorney.
 
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