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solo66 man

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Originally posted by Godsgurl4ever2006
then why do these things keep happening to me for the past 4 months of my life i have struggled and none of that happened before i did what i did so obviously i AM paying.
That is just Satan's way to make you think you owe for a mistake you can never pay for. You are free. Just let God deal with these things. You are loved. There is no other payement to be made. :)
 
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solo66 man

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Sweet love, we all make mistakes daily. Ask anyone. Believe me, anyone says they do not, they are a liar.
You do not need to punish yourself. Honest. Life is hard and punishes more than we will ever need.
God wants you to be free from the bonds of iniquity, true,
but He is a gentle, humble God, and slow to anger. I am a great example of that.
 
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Originally posted by Godsgurl4ever2006
amie i mean i disobeyed my parents and God in march and i have been paying scence then for my disobediance
ok, now I understand...I am not sure how you disobeyed them, but I know that they love you unconditionally. I really think that you should talk to them and tell them what is going on with you. you have told me before that it is not a very good relationship with them, but they are your parents and they love you, and according to scripture you MUST obey them. But, I do not think that you are being punished, sometimes we just deal with the repercussions of our actions and it seems like we are being punished. Trust in the Lord, he will guide you all the way. I know that you have asked for forgiveness, so then you have done your part. I have made mistakes too, we all have, but try not to be so hard on yourself. You have many friends here who love you and I know that of all the people in the world it is your parents who love you the most. you are their child, they gave you life and I hope that you will go to them with what has been going on. They can help you better than any of us can. Solo has been trying so hard and he cares a great deal, so do I, so does everyone here, but we can only do so much for you since we are all so far. However we can offer you an infinite amount of prayers, that in itself will be incredibly helpful. Please talk to your parents and your pastor, give them a chance. They may surprise you. Love and blessings to you always. I love you. Have a good night, I am praying for and with you always...
Amie :hug:
 
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Originally posted by Godsgurl4ever2006
i can't talk to my parents for one reason they arn't saved and wouldn't understand.
They dont have to be saved to love you. they dont have to be saved to understand. You are their daughter and you really need some help right now. Try. all you can do is try. and pray.
 
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Yes, amie is absolutely right. You need to talk to at very least your pastor. I understand your parents are not saved, but maybe they can help. Maybe, if you talk to them, they will be more understanding than you think they are. But do, please talk to your pastor and ask him to pray for you. Does your church have an intercessory team?
Ask them to pray for you and your parents too.
 
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