I didn't see any "prayer request" threads, so I'm posting this here.
I need as many people as possible to help me by praying to God to get rid of my brother and my neice. I will explain why ...
Sixteen years ago my brother got divorced. He started drinking then, and he told my dad he didn't want his kids anymore. My dad didn't want the kids going to live with his ex-wife so he began seeking lawyers to help him get custody of both kids. My folks didn't have the money to spend on this, but my dad - whose intentions are never quite thought out or based on reality - went ahead and did it anyway.
They ended up only getting custody of my neice, Sarah. At this time she was four years old.
My brother continued to drink and become a professional bum, and because of this he never kept a job or developed his own life. So he started living off my folks. This was twelve years ago.
Now my brother is still living off my folks. He's still a drunken loser. And he doesn't even try anymore to find a job to help pay his own way in my folks house. Once a leech finds a host and the host doesn't do anything to get rid of the leech, then why would the leech even try to leave?
Over the passed twelve years my dad spoiled my neice beyond belief. For instance, at the age of fourteen, my dad was still making and cutting up my neice's food. One time, while my dad was in the kitchen cutting up my neice's food, she was siting on her lazy butt in the living room and she said, "I need a Coke. Bring me Coke now." I was visiting my folks the day this happend, and I couldn't help but say something. I said, "Why don't you get up and get it yourself."
Now this was all I said,and my dad went ballistic. He came after me yelling, "Don't you ever talk to her that way again!" What way? You mean, tell the lazy, spoiled little brat to get off her lazy butt and get her own Coke? Go figure ....
Now it is January 20, 2004, and the situation at my folks house has not changed. My brother still sits around on his butt, getting drunk, and feeding off my folks. My neice is now twenty years old - she has held only one job in all this time, and that being only part time and only for a couple months, and she has never went to get her drivers license. Her reasoning is, "I don't have to work (or drive) if I don't want to. I only have to do what I want to do." - Which is basically live off my folks and let them support her.
Hopefully by telling this you will understand why I am praying that God please get rid of these two leeches. My dad is pretty wishy-washy, and he's also quite spineless, so there is no help or hope there of him ever being man enough to throw these two leeches out.
So I am turning to God - and all of you here - for the sake of my poor mother, who is seventy years old now, to get rid of these loafing bums. She is too old to still be vaccuming, washing clothes, doing dishes, and running around for the likes of these two losers.
God made everything, even the ducks ... and I have seen even a duck throwing its babies out of the nest to fend for themselves. So I know what I am asking is right, especially since it is for my mother's sake. She certainly can't throw them out. She's old. My dad is supposed to be the man and it is his job to throw these kids out, but my dad is emotinally screwed up and weak and he is pretty useless in this regard.
Please join me in asking God to get rid of my neice and my brother. Help me pray for this, for my mom's sake ........
Thank you.
- W2W
I need as many people as possible to help me by praying to God to get rid of my brother and my neice. I will explain why ...
Sixteen years ago my brother got divorced. He started drinking then, and he told my dad he didn't want his kids anymore. My dad didn't want the kids going to live with his ex-wife so he began seeking lawyers to help him get custody of both kids. My folks didn't have the money to spend on this, but my dad - whose intentions are never quite thought out or based on reality - went ahead and did it anyway.
They ended up only getting custody of my neice, Sarah. At this time she was four years old.
My brother continued to drink and become a professional bum, and because of this he never kept a job or developed his own life. So he started living off my folks. This was twelve years ago.
Now my brother is still living off my folks. He's still a drunken loser. And he doesn't even try anymore to find a job to help pay his own way in my folks house. Once a leech finds a host and the host doesn't do anything to get rid of the leech, then why would the leech even try to leave?
Over the passed twelve years my dad spoiled my neice beyond belief. For instance, at the age of fourteen, my dad was still making and cutting up my neice's food. One time, while my dad was in the kitchen cutting up my neice's food, she was siting on her lazy butt in the living room and she said, "I need a Coke. Bring me Coke now." I was visiting my folks the day this happend, and I couldn't help but say something. I said, "Why don't you get up and get it yourself."
Now this was all I said,and my dad went ballistic. He came after me yelling, "Don't you ever talk to her that way again!" What way? You mean, tell the lazy, spoiled little brat to get off her lazy butt and get her own Coke? Go figure ....
Now it is January 20, 2004, and the situation at my folks house has not changed. My brother still sits around on his butt, getting drunk, and feeding off my folks. My neice is now twenty years old - she has held only one job in all this time, and that being only part time and only for a couple months, and she has never went to get her drivers license. Her reasoning is, "I don't have to work (or drive) if I don't want to. I only have to do what I want to do." - Which is basically live off my folks and let them support her.
Hopefully by telling this you will understand why I am praying that God please get rid of these two leeches. My dad is pretty wishy-washy, and he's also quite spineless, so there is no help or hope there of him ever being man enough to throw these two leeches out.
So I am turning to God - and all of you here - for the sake of my poor mother, who is seventy years old now, to get rid of these loafing bums. She is too old to still be vaccuming, washing clothes, doing dishes, and running around for the likes of these two losers.
God made everything, even the ducks ... and I have seen even a duck throwing its babies out of the nest to fend for themselves. So I know what I am asking is right, especially since it is for my mother's sake. She certainly can't throw them out. She's old. My dad is supposed to be the man and it is his job to throw these kids out, but my dad is emotinally screwed up and weak and he is pretty useless in this regard.
Please join me in asking God to get rid of my neice and my brother. Help me pray for this, for my mom's sake ........
Thank you.
- W2W
