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Please pray for my son...

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Jamie

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My son Jonathan is 16 (almost17).... I have been saved since June 16, 2002. I've been trying to get Jonathan to go with me to church and to be saved himself, without pushing too hard (I remember before I was saved, when people would try to push me, it would only make me run!!!) Anyway, I've taken the approach of letting him see how the Lord has changed my life, with his own eyes, actions speak louder than words, and he was finally starting to see!!!!

This sunday, he went to church with me for the first time!!! PRAISE THE LORD!!! no coaxing, he asked me on his own if he could go!!!

well, just a little background so you can see why I'm asking for prayers, Jonathan has had some problems for many years, mainly with stealing, lying, and disobeying (big enough problems!!!) anyway, I've been praying for God to come into his life and help him see the light!!!

In the middle of the night last night, a police officer knocked on my door and said that Jon was under arrest for breaking into a car and stealing a backpack out of it. The first thing I said was "It's about time!!!" I truely believe that he is not going to change his ways, until he gets caught, accepts responsibility and suffers the consequences of his actions.

So, I talked to Jon today, and he begged for me to come and get him, and I said I couldn't, that he needed to stay there, until the time was right, I wasn't going to go out of my way to get him out.

He asked me "why is it the first time I go to church, I end up in Juvenille Hall?" I started laughing and said "aaaahhhhh the works of God....don't you see him working in your life already? He knew you wouldn't stop until you got caught...what perfect timing!!! so, when you are sitting there tonight feeling sorry for yourself, talk to the Lord, and thank him for coming into your life and showing you that this is the wrong way to live!!!!" PRAISE THE LORD, AMEN!!! :bow:

I've been praying everyday for God to show him the way, and I really think my prayers are being answered now!!!
 

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Keep praying for your son and showing him a wee bit of tough love Don't get over anxious and be preachy with him, but continue to do as you are doing. You are handling this well I think, and the key now is prayer and example and make him ask you. God bless you in this effort!

Posy your prayer for him in the never ending prayer thread where we all stand in agreement and add that much morepower to your prayer!
 
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Jamie

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Thank you all for your prayers!!!

Today was Jon's court hearing... the judge wanted me to take him home on house arrest for 2 weeks until his next hearing... I told him I couldn't do that. I couldn't guarantee that Jon would follow the program, and I don't want to be responsible for him not following through once again.

a couple weeks ago, I had Jon arrested for stealing from me, and destroying property in the house. Instead of probation, they sent us to a diversion program, which I was very happy about, we were going to start parent-teen mediation, and saturday we were suppost to go to an all day work shop to learn how to communicate... well, Jon didn't come home friday night, and stayed gone all day saturday, so we missed the workshop. I told the judge that Jon wasn't invested in anything, because his consequences havn't been severe enough.

after talking to his lawyer, and the probation officer, I explained to them that my son needs more help than I can give him at home for 2 weeks. I requested a psych eval, and they agreed, because they have talked to him, and some stuff he talks about concerns them (they wouldn't tell me what that was).

anyway.. to make a long story even longer, the judge agreed that he shouldn't come home, and he will stay in juvenile hall for 2 more weeks until him hearing... today he plead guilty, which was a relief, because he's never accepted responsibility. They told me he will prolly be sentenced to a year probation. which is great, because then he HAS to go to school, which he hasn't been doing, and he HAS to be home by 10pm everynight, which he hasn't been doing, and he will be drug tested!!!

read my thread about God talking to me.... last night I woke up chanting "Eziekel, Eziekel"... which I looked up online under bible names, and it means "God give me strength".

I know what is happening is the right thing... I hope it helps him change his ways.

I was able to visit with him for a while, and he understands why I couldn't take him home. He also wants to be evaluated for mental health, he told me for the first time that something is wrong with him, but he doesn't know what. He also told me that they are allowed to have only one book in their room (he LOVES reading), unless they want a Bible too, then they can have 2.... he said he got a Bible and is going to read it!!!!

Praise the lord!!!

Thank you all for your prayers!!!!
 
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wow, awesome news again!

I know what is wrong with him. That feeling inside.. he has no peace, no forgiveness. He is but a mustard seed of faith away. Christ is knocking at the door.

I suggest telling him to read the gospel of john (not to be confused with 1john), because John's gospel says a lot about Jesus, and having faith.
 
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