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epistemaniac

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young@heart.... as hard as it may be to hear, I think that TropicalWilds has given you the best advice of all. This isn't about you so much as it is about him. His actions showed his heart. After reading the thread and then seeing you guys weren't reconciled, in all honesty, all I could say was "I saw that one coming". You have done well. I commend you. You have sought after God, desired to do his will, remained faithful when your ex was faithless. You have forgiven what many would not. But you can't control your ex and it looks as if he has made his choice :( He has made it clear where his heart is at, so for your own personal well being, emotional, spiritual, psychological... its probably best that you put it behind you and move forward. You can and should forgive him, but that doesn't mean you should trust him. Given what he has done, indeed you shouldn't trust. I hope you move forward, pray, seek God, and if it be His will that the Lord place someone else in your life. By all accounts, you deserve it.... blessings..
 
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